Beginner's Guide to Sexual Escalation, Pt. 3: When She Resists
Jul 25, 2025
Struggling with resistance when escalating? Learn key principles to handle pushback gracefully: backing off builds the attraction & comfort to get things moving again.
Jul 25, 2025
Struggling with resistance when escalating? Learn key principles to handle pushback gracefully: backing off builds the attraction & comfort to get things moving again.
Women will throw all kinds of tests your way. On dates and in relationships, the tests don't stop. That can grate you… or you can learn to love it.
You must fail before you succeed at any great skill. This is especially true for getting girls, a skill so many men fear failing at so greatly.
Not all pickups are hard. In this week's case study, Alek details a much simpler A-to-Z indirect club pickup than in last time's.
Online game is a convenient way to meet more women once you get it to work for you. Here's how to get it working and add it to your new-girl pipeline.
When a woman makes relationship demands, you're in a bind. Concede and keep the girl, but lose your power. Or decline and keep your power, yet lose the girl. How do you break the bind?
Every guy wants to succeed more with the girl(s) he likes. Before you can do that, though, you must first do something else: erase your inner nice guy.
What places are the BEST to meet women at? Well, it’s not dance clubs, the street, or the metro. In fact, those are among the WORST. The best include some places many don’t even think to frequent.
You can mirror a woman's behavior to turn her on, break the pattern she's in, or even get her chasing. They key, of course, is calibrating this to her.
What does skillful indirect game look like, when used to pick up girls? This case study follows a successful indirect club game pick up, from open to close.
When a girl pulls away, your first instinct will be to chase. Yet chasing only digs the hole deeper. Instead, stop her pulling away – then fix it.
If you view some women as virginal saintly Madonnas, and others as dissolute slutty whores, does that create problems for you?
Could you be shameless? When you talk to a woman and she attempts to shame you (for any reason), the best thing to do is stand firm… and unashamed.
It is possible for you to display intent to a woman without giving away your intentions, so that she may still have room to chase you. You just need the right approach.