Girls bring up feminism sometimes at the bar or on dates. But
address this wrong, and you either look weak, or get into a fight. What
do you do?
It is not uncommon these days to read about feminism and gender
related issues in mainstream and social media. It is indeed a hot
subject; many politicians focus on gender issues, schools and
universities have been affected by feminism, and society as a whole
experiences both the benefits and the consequences of these ideals.
Regarding men’s websites, we often see critics of feminism –
especially on websites related to the “men’s rights movement” (MRM) –
who usually post about the negative effects feminism has on society and
how it impacts men’s lives.
These MRM posts are usually normative and take a political stance
regarding the subject. This is not the purpose of this post.
I want to analyze how feminism – and the subject of feminism – can
affect some of your interactions with women. In other words, what do
you do if a girl starts giving you the feminist talk when you are
trying to escalate the vibe? I want to discuss the direct, practical
implications this has on the interaction while treating the normative
status of the subject as irrelevant. In other words, I will leave the
discussion regarding whether or not feminism per se is good or bad to
somebody else (for now), and instead share a more descriptive and
practical perspective on the subject.
The idea of this post is to cover why and how to deal with women
bringing the gender debate into interactions. The perspective of this
post is based on the basic assumption that you want to get her naked.
If you are like me and go out a lot, you will encounter women
bringing this subject up, especially in the light of important
political events, which tend to stir up such controversial subjects.
Note that this post is focused on feminism and gender related questions
because these tend to be the most commonly brought up political topics
when interacting with women. However, each of the techniques covered
here are valid for any controversial or loaded political, philosophical
(only if it is normatively loaded), religious, or ethical subject. I
believe all of these are topics to be avoided in seduction. You will
see in this post that my focus is mostly geared toward changing or
avoiding the subject, as these topics are simply not fruitful for
seduction.
Also note that when I am referring to feminism, I am not just
referring to the topic of “gender equality” (which is only one of the
many topics of feminism – one that I tend to agree with); I’m speaking
of the whole ideology behind the feminist world view.