Different types of nightlife venues require you to switch up how
you approach new girls. The social, sniper, and fire-at-will strategies
all work best in different settings.
Today’s subject is something I have been thinking about a great deal
lately, something I have noticed that has had a great impact on the way
I do things. I have been travelling a lot this summer – ranging from
Stockholm, Oslo, Bucharest, to Krakow. As a result of these travels, I
had to deal with different cultures, girls, and social codes. But what
is of more interest is how I had to deal with new clubs.
A very common tendency for us night gamers is that we find a few
spots we happen to truly like, then we refer to those as pussy
goldmines. There is absolutely nothing wrong with this in regards to
the actual “getting laid” process, but it can limit your learning
curve. Being able to deal with different venues is key, and you learn a
lot from it. This posts is about those lessons.
Before I move on, I want to make it clear that there are no perfect
venues – all venues have their “shit factor”, but some venues are
simply easier and better than others. I have written numerous posts on
the subject before. I suggest you check out these links as well:
This post is more about how one can calibrate to different venues.
Yes, different venues can require a
whole different approach. I have
discussed this before regarding big vs. small venues and chaotic vs.
more chilled venues, and I concluded that chaotic venues will affect a
girl’s state, which may make her horny from the get-go, but they can
also cockblock you as a result of the many wildcards caused by the
chaos. I have also mentioned how big, chaotic venues can make girls
more defensive. You there have to either:
On a side note, smaller, more chill venues allow for a tighter form
of game. Girls are more open as they are more in control over the
situation; they can see where their friends are and do not have to be
afraid of losing them. They also feel their friends are nearby and
within their periphery, which creates a form of control. Additionally,
as a result of being more relaxed and less chaotic, there are fewer
wildcards. This allows you to go
in more smoothly. Going in smooth is
not something you CAN do, it’s something you MUST do, because as a
result of people being more aware of their surroundings, a rejection
can lead to negative social proof, as people can see
you strike out. On
a different side note, successful approaches can create a snowball
effect.
Keep all this in mind throughout this post, as it will be key info
for what is to come. I believe there are 3 different ways to approach
night game:
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Social game
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Sniping
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Fire-at-will
Different venues will allow for different modes. I will break each
of these down, discussing what they mean, then cover which types of
venues fit for each strategy.
