How to Plan Out a Date's Logistics End-to-End

What’s the difference between a date with preplanned logistics versus one where you simply pick a place and go?

The difference is often HUGE… with a bevy of key benefits for the preplanned dater.

In light of our 50% off “Summer of Lovelies” One Date sale, and the two limited edition Date Flows I’ve made available with a One Date purchase during this sale (you can also claim them here if you already own One Date), I’m putting out a few different pieces on dates and date planning.

Some of the most prolific daters have established date templates they use over and over again with the women they take out, because those templates simply work:

• They know where to meet a girl

• They know where to take her

• They know where to go with her after the first place

• They have a backup venue to take her if she needs more time

• They may have various locations they can use to “seal the deal”

You don’t have to be in your home city or town to take advantage of logistical preplanning, either. Preplanning your date logistics is something you can do anywhere.

It’s something you ought to do, everywhere, too… because it just offers so many benefits it’d be silly not to.

 

Simple Dates, Not Simplistic Ones

Two of my earlier “dating” articles on Girls Chase were about using date templates and simplifying your dating.

But just because a date is simple does not mean it is simplistic.

A lot of planning goes into many of the simplest, most streamlined things. It takes great skill and care to make something that is very simple yet also very effective.

Many men seem to see “simple” and think “wing it”, “pick a place; any place”, and so on.

Some of this is laziness. Some is just them not knowing how to plan things out better.

The trick to how to plan a date’s logistics out, end-to-end, front-to-back, is not some big secret. All it takes, really, is using your head, and planning ahead.

 

Good Logistical Planning Makes Dates & Hookups Easier

Only a few days ago, a forum member named Jan reported picking up a girl in a shopping mall. After a strong introduction, he took her to a café, let her do all the talking, then enlisted her help to get a female opinion on a t-shirt he wanted to try on.

He then whisked her off to a sports shop he was familiar with, to a changing room he’d pre-scouted and knew was good for it, then proceeded to hug her, kiss her, undress her, finger her, and receive oral from her… basically everything but full-on intercourse.

About this changing room where all the magic happened, he noted:

I checked this changing room logistically before, so I knew its a good spot

Does that seem like a small thing to you?

Well, have you ever tried to pull a girl to a changing room you haven’t scouted in advance?

It’s… awkward. There’s lots of people around, the doors are too high as an anti-theft mechanism, you can easily hear everyone outside your changing stall, there are lines to use the rooms, and/or any number of other difficulties you’ll face with dressing rooms.

How many changing rooms were there in that mall where Jan could’ve pulled a girl to but the logistics would’ve been screwed and she’d have balked or they’d have not been able to escalate as far as they did?

Yet he Jan found the one store with private dressing rooms, and once he felt things were going well enough, that’s right where he pulled her to – and he got about the results you’d expect from it, too!

Good logistical planning makes possible hookups that otherwise wouldn’t happen.

That’s not all it does though.

It offers a range of benefits to you:

• Good preplanned date logistics let you take your mind OFF logistics during the date and just focus on the girl and the experience

• Good preplanned date logistics tend to be far superior to most improvised-in-the-moment date locations/logistics

• Good preplanned logistics, because they are all good across the whole date, allow the woman to focus on you (which is quite helpful for actually seducing her)

• And of course, the one we mentioned above: good preplanned logistics, because they are good logistics, typically make a successful hookup often far more likely than it’d have been with rougher seat-of-the-pants logistics

“There’s just one problem,” I hear you say. “How do I come up with good preplanned date logistics?”

 

Good Date Plan Logistics Require Your Thinking Cap

That’s right: you are going to have to turn the crankshaft on your brain for a moment and plan things all out.

This seems to be why most guys don’t preplan their date logistics… it’s a bit of a chore, having to sit there and plan things out precisely, mapped out in advance.

Plus, there are so many unknowns! Think about those unknowns:

• She might cancel the date or flake on it

• The date might flame out in Venue #1

• It might turn out you’re not into each other

• She might have other things planned that day

And who knows what else!

So why do that extra “brain work” when  so little is assured?

Because you want to make it MORE assured!

Taking 30-60 minutes to plan through the logistics of an upcoming date is absolutely worthwhile. It makes it much more likely you end up with the girl. Even if she flakes, you now have a date planned out you can use with future girls you ask out. It’s a lot less work using a date template you already have mapped out from prior women.

So yes, you’ll need to think.

That thinking, though, is worth it… even if you’re afraid “What if she flakes?”

Because the counter there is always going to be “What if she doesn’t?”

Do you want her to not flake and then you scramble around trying to figure out where to take her, only to settle on the first crummy idea that floats into reach?

I doubt it. Better safe than sorry.

Even if she does flake… these things happen.

You can still use the date you’ve planned out with subsequent girls.

Either way, it ends up being worth having done.

 

What to Plan Out in a Date’s Logistics

When we talk about how to plan a date’s logistics, what logistics do we mean, exactly?

There are a bunch of different date logistics you can focus on.

However, let’s talk about some of the key ones:

• The initial date spot

• The route to the secondary date spot

• The secondary (“set the mood”) date spot

• Potential public sex spot(s)

• Your bachelor pad

Here’s the drilldown on each:

 

Initial Date Spot

Where you and her first intend to meet.

The initial date spot, like everywhere else you map out in your date planning, should adhere to the five Cs of dating.

However, in particular, you will usually want somewhere:

• Comfortable: comfy seats and chairs

• Cozy: easy to sit close together

• Quiet: not a lot of people present

• Easy to reach from wherever you’ll meet the girl at

If it’s during the day, places with natural sunshine filtering in (if it’s indoors) are great.

If you just pick the first café you see or that springs to mind, odds are it won’t satisfy all these requirements. Likewise with the first dive bar or any other “first anything” you think of.

Instead, it pays to walk around, inspecting different venues, looking for one that has just the right environment for what you need.

Then experiment by taking some girls there on dates, and see how things work out.

 

Route to the Secondary Date Spot

Your secondary date spot (we’ll discuss that in a moment) is where you’re going to head to after leaving the initial date spot with your date. It’s worth knowing the route you’ll take to get there, too.

The route might be short, but it might not be. There may be interesting things to see along the way (or not). Regardless, a few things are generally important:

• Routes should not have anything dangerous, like crossing a very busy, large road

• Routes don’t have to be short, but they shouldn’t be super long. If she spent two hours with you in the initial date spot, then 30 minutes walking with you en route to the next place, it’s too much

• You should avoid routes that have something especially engaging along them that you can’t easily factor into your date plans. For instance, if your route takes you past a big festival, and you don’t intend to attend that festival with her, it’s a risk (she may see the festival and decide she wants to go in there, derailing your date)

• Super crowded routes aren’t ideal. Instead, look for routes with less foot traffic, where you and your date can feel a bit defensive than you do surrounded by people on all sides

If you check the route out from one spot to another and it’s just no good, look for an alternate route that’s better.

If you can’t find one that’s good at all, consider taking a car there… or redo your logistics. Either pick a different initial date spot that’s a better route from the secondary one, or change the secondary spot.

 

Secondary (“Set the Mood”) Date Spot

Your initial spot is usually going to be cozy but airy.

However, the secondary spot is all about setting a sensual mood. This is the spot where you bring the energy lower and more sensual, to prepare her for the pull.

As such, you’re going to tend to look for certain features in a secondary date spot:

• It should usually be dimmer / not as bright

• Somewhere semi-secluded (a booth with curtains, for instance)

• Darker décor (e.g., mahogany, etc.) seems to work better

• If there’s music, it should be slow-paced and sensual

As an alternative, you can also use the rooftop of your building as a secondary date spot.

Or you can skip the secondary spot altogether. It’s basically there for if you need it – but you won’t need it with every girl.

 

Potential Public Sex Spot(s)

It’s always worth having your public sex locations planned out in advance.

That’s what Jan did in that report he shared (and you can see how it paid off).

If you have a car, the rule of “always carry a towel in your trunk” comes in handy for this (take the towel out and throw it under her on grass or sand and you’ve got a readymade bed).

I discuss a full range of options for this in my article on sex logistics.

You won’t always need to resort to public sex. But if it’s going super well, and a public sex location is available and it’ll be quicker to get to than home, it can be an appealing extra option.

 

Don’t Forget Your Pad!

Your own living space needs to be considered in your logistical date planning too.

That includes considerations like:

• How far is your place from where you’ll be coming back from?

• Is there anywhere else you’re going first (like your complex pool) or are you headed straight to your home?

• Do you have the supplies you need there (drinks, snacks, condoms, toiletries, etc.)?

• Is your place clean? Gross bathrooms or sheets can be a turnoff

• Have you made sure (if possible) the only places to sit are close together? e.g., loveseat or bed… no separate chairs a girl can perch in where she’ll be isolated and awkwardly far away

Check out the article on setting up your bachelor pad for more tips on at-home logistics.

 

Wrap Up

It might seem like a lot to think about, but planning out a date’s logistics in advance makes a very significant difference.

Once you’ve got the details mapped out, take a little time to also review the whole picture; make sure the date makes sense with the various steps you’ve got, the flow it’s proceeding in, and the routes you’ll take.

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Best,
Chase