Guide to Choosing the Right Pickup Tactics (Avoid These Pitfalls)

Not all pickup tactics work for everyone—some even backfire. Learn how to choose the right material for your style and avoid painful mistakes.

Hey guys. Welcome back.

Lately, I have been focusing on sex talk topics—mostly practical and advanced material. Starting today, and over the next few weeks, I’ll be sharing more posts aimed at beginners and those at the intermediate level to mix things up. Don’t worry if you’re more experienced—these posts can still offer fresh insights that even seasoned guys might find useful.

Even though this post is intended for beginners, it’s highly relevant for intermediates who have field experience with pickup tactics and seduction material, yet seem to struggle, or perhaps the material does not always hit the way it should. You might be using the material you believe in, but it does not work as you had hoped, or not at all. And sometimes, when it does work, it has some unwanted side effects.

There can be many causes behind this, such as timing and calibration, when you fine-tune the material to the girl and the context. Timing and calibration are universal components of pristine game that set experienced players apart from newer guys.

Yet, there may be something else at play—something overarching.

Many guys who join this community, read this blog, and purchase products, are looking for the holy grail. They want to collect the best material, building a powerful stack of tools they (often wrongfully) think is the best for them and their context.

The problem is that they often select a random assortment of material, including tech, tactics, and gambits, and then push it out. After all, it has been field-tested by experienced players, so it should work for a newer guy, right?

Yes, the material may have been tested and proven to succeed, especially if it comes from a credible source. But there are other factors at play. Like beautiful clothes, not all material works equally well for everyone. That high-quality shirt is nice, but it does not fit you. You can tell pretty quickly if something does not work for you—it does not give positive results. For instance, teasing or cocky, funny lines often work famously, and many guys use them successfully. This did not work for me back then and still doesn’t work for me to this day. It does not fit my persona.