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When Women Want You to Say Hi

A few posts back we discussed how girls show interest. That post, though, was primarily focused on how you can tell a woman’s interested in you once you’re already talking to her. Let’s rewind it backward in the interaction a bit.

Chase AmanteAbout the Author: Chase Amante

Chase woke up one day in 2004 tired of being alone. So, he set to work and read every book he could find, studied every teacher he could meet, and talked to every girl he could talk to to figure out dating. After four years, scads of lays, and many great girlfriends (plus plenty of failures along the way), he launched this website. He will teach you everything he knows about girls in one single program in his Mastery Package.


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Cause's picture

Chase, hi man! I've been reading your articles for a while and I got to tell you: this place is a goldmine! :)

"Not Pissing Off Girls Who Dig You" This is a solid perspective. Girls are handicapped in their way of communicating their desires for you. Imagine how frustrating it must feel to wait for this beautiful girl to come to you.. When you remind yourself of this, it makes you feel powerfull when you introduce yourself to a girl that shows these little signs.

Some girls however are all caught up in their minds: going their way from point A to point B. Their mind being captivated by thoughts of clothes that they want to buy and other things. So they have 0 awareness and won't give you any signs at all. Like this fine looking girl I met at a bus stop earlier this week. She didn't even acknowledge my presence. I however felt attracted to her and opened her very casual with: "hey, how's your day going". I swear.. When these words left my mouth, this girl's face lit up and we got this warm vibe going. I could tell this made her day.. I know it made mine!

Keep the words flowing mate. I appreciate you sharing your perspective and experience! You seem like a very likeable guy. I want to live life to the max - your articles for sure help me to realise this!


Chase Amante's picture

Cause, welcome! Thanks for logging in and saying hello!

Yes, precisely. Women can be standing there thinking you're the most gorgeous, interesting-looking, cool guy they've seen in months, but they still won't come up to you and say anything overt. At best they'll get close and hover around you (sometimes only for a few seconds), or very rarely they'll say something very casual around you or to you. It sucks for a gal when she really digs a guy but he doesn't move to engage her.

Sounds like exactly the case with that girl at the bus stop you met, yeah. Sometimes a woman's just waiting for any kind of opening you can give her, and she'll jump excitedly into the conversation as soon as she gets one with you ;)

Well, keep stopping by and don't be a stranger. I'll try to keep getting stuff up that hopefully will continue striking the same chords!


Oscar's picture

Hi Chase! Great blog, many insightful articles here!

I have a question about glances from girls. If she's staring at me, in order to get me noticing her, but looks away right before I lay my eyes on her, will that build a chase frame? Or do I still need to pre-open her?
Cause it's pretty obvious to her that her glance made me look...

Anonymous's picture

How about when girls look at you at work, lets say, and you look at them and have nothing to say because the relation was never established after a year but there is still interest that goes around for me. Or when you say hi. Do you hug them, do you say hi passively or do you turn your body away or towards them? act happy to see them or normal?

Tyler's picture

I've been reading a lot of the things Chase placed on this site and its helped me a greatly but there's this girl in my class. About a week ago I approached her and started talking to her she seemed pretty cool. Ever since we had that talk when she walks into class we smile at each other. I wanted to talk to her today, so I asked her something about class but in the end after she answered the question for me I didn't take the convo further, I chickened out because I'm quite shy. During class I swear I thought I saw her looking at me sometimes, quick glances then playing it off maybe I'm imagining it, idk. But then when we we were leaving class she walks up to me smiles and says bye with a soft voice. What should I take of this ? I'm not used to this but I would like to hear your opinions ?

Anonymous's picture

Would this count as random verbalization its this woman that i work with.We have developed a good relationship but sometime she is friendly and then sometime it will be like i don't exist or she is to busy to speak to me ? But in some cases that may literally be the case. Here's the thing often time I will be In a conversation she will say something like " Are you talking to me ?" but the thing is their is no way she could have taught that I was talking to her because I was already in a conversation prior to her entering the room. Literally she would walk in right as I was in the middle of my statement and ask if I was talking to her ?

JksAnon's picture

I really like this approach. Its all about just paying attention, and then being a forthright human being. Good advice in any situation,. Not only helps to meet women, but also keep the one you really like in a fulfilling relationship. Pay attention, and respond appropriately in a calm confident friendly manner.

Anonymous's picture

If you look good, women will let you talk to them and they will be polite, if not they'll be rude no matter how nice you act.

I'm dressing not so nice lately and not cutting my hair, so women are treating me like crap. All I have to do is get a haircut and wear different clothing and they're all over me, but they don't like me, just how I look.

Men have not cornered the shallow market.

Mickey's picture

You, sir, are not wrong.

Peterdre's picture

Hi Chase! Thank you for this great article, but I have a question related to my most recent experience.

How do you act towards a girl that has started being bitter after you missed several approach invitations, like named in the article? Basically there is this girl I see at work staring at me, providing proximity. But I haven't done anything to approach her and now I can sense the attraction going down every second. To be honest I'm afraid she'll be rude if I approached her now. Like one week ago she used to chase me during lunch break, now she looks quite pissed when she sees me. How can I save this one?


Dashie's picture

Hey Peterdre,

You can try saying hi to her even late in her signalling her.
If she responds warmly you can try and pick up a conversation, although if she is bitter you can ignore her and move on.

What your doing the situation that I talked out isn't chasing as long as you don't seem desperate and casual about it.

It will help ease the tension.


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