I see a lot of guys in relationships where they just aren’t getting their needs met:
- The guy crushing on a girl who doesn’t return his affections
- The guy taking girls on date after date yet nothing ever happens
- The guy trapped in a relationship where he’s the ‘one down’
... and I always say to myself, “That seems silly, why don’t they just either fix the situation or get out?”
It seems straightforward enough: if she does not meet your needs, then you either
- Fix the situation,
- Make HER fix the situation, or
- Replace her
Yet, human emotion is not so simple, and once a guy’s is invested in a girl, it’s often hard to pull himself away, even if the situation is not ideal.
So, that in mind, I want to take a look at how men end up in these unsatisfactory positions... and I want to give you some advice on what to do, should you find yourself stuck in a similar pit of tar, unable to get free and sinking ever downward.
About the Author: Chase Amante
Chase woke up one day in 2004 tired of being alone. So, he set to work and read every book he could find, studied every teacher he could meet, and talked to every girl he could talk to to figure out dating. After four years, scads of lays, and many great girlfriends (plus plenty of failures along the way), he launched this website. He will teach you everything he knows about girls in one single program in his One Date System.