I see a lot of guys in relationships where they just aren’t getting their needs met:
- The guy crushing on a girl who doesn’t return his affections
- The guy taking girls on date after date yet nothing ever happens
- The guy trapped in a relationship where he’s the ‘one down’
... and I always say to myself, “That seems silly, why don’t they just either fix the situation or get out?”
It seems straightforward enough: if she does not meet your needs, then you either
- Fix the situation,
- Make HER fix the situation, or
- Replace her
Yet, human emotion is not so simple, and once a guy’s is invested in a girl, it’s often hard to pull himself away, even if the situation is not ideal.
So, that in mind, I want to take a look at how men end up in these unsatisfactory positions... and I want to give you some advice on what to do, should you find yourself stuck in a similar pit of tar, unable to get free and sinking ever downward.