“Why don't people just give me money?”
That's what a friend of mine once lamented, frustrated at how hard a time he was having running business and making things work as well as he thought they should.
It stems from a mindset that most people have to some extent: X just happens to people. It's a focus on events.
Events are an easy thing for the human mind to seize on:
- Climbing Mt. Everest
- Diving in the Mediterranean
- Getting married on a hilltop
- Selling a business for millions of dollars
- Sleeping with some beautiful girl
- Becoming famous and getting on TV
Most people look at the people doing these things and say, “God, that person is lucky! Why can't I have that happen to ME?”
The hard thing to do though is the thing that's also the more correct thing, and the thing that actually works: focusing not on events, but on process, instead.
About the Author: Chase Amante
Chase woke up one day in 2004 tired of being alone. So, he set to work and read every book he could find, studied every teacher he could meet, and talked to every girl he could talk to to figure out dating. After four years, scads of lays, and many great girlfriends (plus plenty of failures along the way), he launched this website. He will teach you everything he knows about girls in one single program in his One Date System.