Last week, I tackled the common pickup / manosphere belief that the ‘alpha provider’ is a myth: both why men in these communities often think this way, as well as why men who actually are alpha providers don’t usually find their ways into such communities to bother providing themselves as counterexamples to the claims of their non-existence.
Today we dive into the ‘how to’ side of things.
How do you avoid the gradual erosion of authority in a long-term relationship with a woman, and instead retain her attraction, respect, and deference?
How do you continue to be the lover, even when you assume the role of provider as well?
I’ve broken it down here into seven (7) rules: four of them external/behavior based, and three of them internal/mentality based.
We’ll start with behavior, and move to mentalities.
Here we go.