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15 Lessons from 10 Years of Getting Girls

getting girlsChase and I were talking the other day, and both of us realized that while I've been posting on this website all year.. we never actually did an introduction into who *I* am.

So, pleasure to meet you - I'm Ricardus. I've been in the seduction community for 10 years, since 2002. Like Chase, I arrived at a lot of the core fundamentals of what makes attraction work the way it works, and seduction work the way it works, simply by doing so many approaches and meeting so many different kinds of women and putting myself into so many different situations - everything from high end social circle game in nightclubs to direct-approach street game by day - that eventually I more or less HAD to figure things out... you see enough patterns again and again, and you start realizing what those patterns are, and how to use them.

When Chase asked me if I'd like to start writing for Girls Chase, I wasn't sure how people would react - while we've had a lot of the same experiences and we've arrived at a lot of the same conclusions, my writing style's different from his, and I know he's already got a lot of very loyal followers on here. But, I said, you know what, let's give it a shot, and hopefully I can contribute something worthwhile to the site.

Anyway, I know there's been some controversy on here lately, but I really am focused on bringing you only stuff that I've tested out myself EXTENSIVELY and have personally seen work - and work well - and that I've given to students and mentees and had them execute too. That's a commitment I've long made to myself and everyone I talk about this to or instruct in anyway, and it's a commitment I share very deeply with Chase.

So, while I know my tone's different from his, I do want to help guys out on this website every bit as much as he does, and I think (I hope) I have a lot to offer.

This post's about 15 of the lessons I've learned in 10 years of getting girls. They've been game changers for me - and I hope you find them useful.

Ricardus DominoAbout the Author: Ricardus Domino

Ricardus was one of the most prolific and respected coaches in the men’s dating advice industry. He’s dated some of the planet’s most beautiful women, ranging from a Miss World contestant, to a model for Coca-Cola, to one of “Brazil’s Next Top Models.” His specialty is daytime street stops. He is most remembered for his “Are you single?” opening line. Ricardus is currently retired from the dating advice industry.

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Anonymous's picture

I stopped reading the stuff Ricardus write soon after I saw one too many theories based on some chemical, psychology theories, even though the theories just doesn't feel right and creeps you out, such as when he wrote something about lying to your own brain to drum up the courage to talk to a woman?


I think the way Ricardus writes is too affirmative, even when what his theories are unconvincing and questionable.

Unlike Chase, Ricardus focus too much on describing rather than instructing.

AR's picture

I agree with Anon to some extent. Ricardus, you do have a lot of theories, and they can be too abstract some times. However, that also provides it's own advantages. I know it allows me to develop my own style of seduction among other things.

In my opinion Ricardus, I think your posts could improve if you used more specific examples like Chase does, where he gives examples of his conversations more often. That helps clarify how your theories are applicable, and will make you more convincing.

Your posts are still fantastic though, don't doubt that. :)

Psychotic's picture

I really appreciate the material the Ricardus writes on this site. Now certain things that he recommends I just can't bring myself to do. Like walking up to a stranger and asking her if she's single? That's just weird. You don't know a girl and that's the first thing you're going to ask her? I think direct openers work better in that regard. The one thing I don't like so much is that Chase doesn't post that often anymore. It almost feels like he only posts twice per month nowadays where as before he would post 3 to 4 times per week.

Nick's picture

Actually my friend asks them if they're single. Works well for him. Not weird at all, i should try it one day...

BW's picture

16) It's not as hard as it seems ;)

I'd dated something like 15 girls in 10 years before I started working on my game in earnest. Since I started reading this website and working through all of the things that were slowing me down in earnest 6 months ago, I've doubled that number--and the momentum keeps building.

You don't have to know every single rule to start playing the game. Get out there and start learning.

Douglas's picture

Hey Ricardus,your articles are also the best & to the point but what if a girl who looks interested in you but doesn't reply to "What's your schedule like next week?" message?.Can not asking her again & act like being indifferent attract her & fix the matter?

Ronin's picture

I'm a little confused between this 2 point as i found them paradoxale.

1)Make the right selection
You say that you have to choose the right girl according to you exepectations, The liberale one for quick and casual sex. and conervative for a much long term thing. As if doing the opposite many problemes will happen.

2)Show her you get the dichotomy
You say here that very girl has the two part on her: She can be the easy girl. Or she can be the virgin.

So this do'nt alienate the first point? Or you just want to mean that all girls had their sexuality too?

because otherwise if the Liebrtaed can bee a virigin and the conservative be the easy girl, the first point becom meanigless.

So i just want some clarification about this two point.

harrist's picture

I agree with no.1 choose the right market :D lol! to be honest, when my target working as services industry such as nurse, and etc. it always fail, not so sure why! but every time my target works in the factory, it always works :D lol! may be just maybe, its because my looks, lmao! hahaha

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