I've been with my fair share of "attached" women before -
girls with boyfriends and girls with husbands. As I've mentioned
before, the way I see it,
there's always some guy, SOMEWHERE who's going to be angry you're
sleeping with a girl - whether he's her boyfriend, her ex-boyfriend,
her husband, or just some guy who's already "called dibs" on her and
you moved faster, it doesn't matter - somebody somewhere is upset that
you're with "his" girl. So you can either spend time worrying if some
man you don't know will have his feelings hurt if you sleep with a
woman who wants you, or you can sleep with a woman who wants you and
figure that if someone is upset about her for sleeping with someone
else, well, that's between that person and her.
And if she was REALLY his, there's not a thing you could've done to
get her... trust me.
By the same coin, it doesn't bother me a lick when men are trying to
get a girl *I'm* seeing. If you're
dating a beautiful girl, men will want her, and men will try to get her.
More power to them for trying. And hey, if she DOES give you the slip
for some other cat, you can take that as strong evidence that either
you weren't doing things right with her, or she wasn't the kind of girl
who believes much in loyalty and fidelity, or you're dealing with some
combination thereof (usually it's some combination thereof).
Lately though, I've been seeing some pretty lame attempts by men
trying to get my girlfriend. And it's made me (and my girlfriend)
realize: most men have no idea
what to do when a girl has a boyfriend
and they like her.
In an effort to stem the tide of lame attempts men make to get girls
with boyfriends, I've put together a list here of the top 3 things TO
do, and the top 7 things NOT to do when you're trying to get a girl
who's got a guy. After reading
this list you will, I hope, be in a much better position to avoid
making these mistakes - and avoid ending up in time-wasting or worse
situations with attached women, too.