You must calibrate your approaches and interactions to the social
context you find yourself in. What’s that include? Exposure, vibe, and
Welcome back to this series on calibration, guys. Last
time, we discussed what is, in my
opinion, the most important aspect of calibration: calibrating to her
level of interest and her overall response to your moves.
This time around, we will discuss another key aspect of calibration.
Again, if you manage to understand the concepts and the theories, as
well as the techniques covered in my last post, you will do well. I
swear. If you also manage to master the ideas of this post, you are
already a pretty good seducer, for sure.
But like I mentioned in my previous
post, there is no way one can
become good at calibration without field experience. By this I
failing and succeeding. Both give valuable lessons. Do not be afraid to
mess up. Instead, jump into it, take a risk. If she doesn’t like it and
she loses attraction? Well, as long as you did not cross the line into
“overly offensive,” then no big deal, move on, learn from your mistake.
And the next time you meet a girl in a similar context, you will be
These posts will serve as guidance to shorten the learning process.
It will help you get better at calibration by helping you learn faster
from your field experience. These posts will give you an overall idea
so that you are not left in the dark, but keep in mind that you can
only truly understand the points I am about to cover after having
experienced them in real life.
Additionally, when it comes to
calibration, there are unlimited nuances (so many that it is literally
impossible to cover them all in posts). I can only give you the big
picture, as an understanding of the small details are best acquired
through in-field training. For example, every girl and every context
differs. So many factors play in that dictate the outcome of an
- Her personality
- Her mood
- The context
- Your mood
And each of these have almost infinite variations.
experience, you can create a model that has a high success rate.
real, I have never seen a guy with a 100% success rate, but I know that
an average of 1/5 from a club is doable. And let’s be frank,
more than good enough? It surely is for me.