Girls Don't WANT You to Move Slow
Jul 19, 2023
Guys will move slow with girls out of hesitation, uncertainty, or manners. Yet if a woman is into you, she DOESN’T want you to move slow with her!
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Jul 19, 2023
Guys will move slow with girls out of hesitation, uncertainty, or manners. Yet if a woman is into you, she DOESN’T want you to move slow with her!
How long you wait to have sex is important no matter the type of relationship you want, be it casual, serious, short or long term. So, what’s too fast and too slow?
Timing is a crucial element of successful pickups. If your timing is off, you’ll often completely blow it with girls. But get timing right, and that girl you want is yours…
You must know how to calibrate yourself to women to excel with them. This means you need to know how to read her signals, punish/reward, persist, and more.
When your words, actions, and moves aren’t timed right, it all feels wrong and incongruous. Yet when the timing is right, everything becomes magic.
It’s important to move fast with women. Yet, you can absolutely overshoot – and get into the habit of rushing with girls instead.
When she’s thirsty for you, there’s just one way to mess up: not giving her what she wants. Yet guys make this error far too often. Why?
You hit it off with a girl, or have a wonderful date. Then, suddenly, she has to go. You can avoid this, yet, with better time management.
Talk’s over and she’s gone away. Then there she is: she re-approaches you. Get the re-approach right and she’s yours. But mess up, and, well...
Chase and Varoon talk how to set up a relationship with a new girl and keep her coming back for more.
What’s going on when a situation feels “off” to a girl? It’s 1 of 3 things: you moved too fast, you moved too slow, or you got needy.
A discussion of the tendency of many men to "wait" for things to happen with women, and the holes in men's approaches to women and dating that cause this.
One of the big places a lot of guys go really wrong: trying to make dating and interacting with them too wonderful, amazing, and satisfying a process for girls before they become lovers.
Okay, so you're going out and meeting women - but are you doing things *efficiently*? If not, you may be spending a whole lot of unneeded time spinning your wheels with girls.
