The Abundance Trap: Why More Hot Women Can Mean Less Sex
Jun 30, 2025
Why scoring hotter women can backfire—leaving you with less sex. Discover the ‘Abundance Trap’ and how to escape it to enjoy more success with women.
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Jun 30, 2025
Why scoring hotter women can backfire—leaving you with less sex. Discover the ‘Abundance Trap’ and how to escape it to enjoy more success with women.
Motivation is the toughest thing to hack – whether we talk pickup, seduction, or anything else. To succeed, you must draw your strength… from somewhere.
Before you can begin upgrading your strengths and weaknesses, you need an important mindset shift: “I’m NOT perfect just the way I am.”
Ever want someone to just listen, or give you a chance? The desire for a guaranteed shot cheats you out of having to become truly exceptional.
As you improve at seduction, you may find yourself slowing down or halting in your growth curve. Understanding why this happens is crucial for remedying it.
What are the most important items to work on when you’re new to seducing women – and what’s most important when you’re more intermediate?
Can you learn psychological independence, mental resistance to outside influences, and a rebellious, irreverent attitude… or is it either there or it’s not?
Be optimistic” people will tell you – but how? Optimism isn’t a cure all, nor is it always easy… yet it’s vital to being a man who gets what he wants.
5 key mindsets of the successful player: women want sex more than relationships, context is more important than words, my feelings matter most, and more.
Decision making is about more than just facts or gut instinct. Good decision makers have good decision making processes – and these make all the difference.
Why would you want or need advanced seduction techniques? Alek explains the motivation behind wanting more than the mundane.
A one-stop shop for answering that tacky question: how do I start picking up girls? If you’re waiting for it to “feel” right, you might be there a bit.
You’ve realized you have a tendency or desire to show off. Should you fight it? Or embrace? Actually, it can be quite useful – properly wielded.
“Just be yourself” can be distracting and ineffective advice. However, there is a kernel of truth buried within it: that of congruence.
