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The "I'll Show Her!" Mentality in Dating

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By: Chase Amante

Mar 15, 2018

You might tell yourself “I’ll show her!” when a girl is resistant to or uninterested in you. Is there a better way to respond to a resistant or disinterested woman?

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Are You a Unique, Special Individual? You're Probably Missing the Basics

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By: Chase Amante

Jan 3, 2018

Sometimes you don’t want to follow the instructions. The instructions are for other folks, not you! But if you still aren’t getting results, maybe it’s time to change things up.

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"Girls Only Want Good-Looking Guys or Young Guys"

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By: Chase Amante

Nov 1, 2017

The most attractive thing to women is neither youth nor beauty. So why do so many guys think girls only want good-looking guys or young guys?

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The "I've Got to Wait for Girls to Meet Me" Thing

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By: Chase Amante

Oct 8, 2017

Do you wait for girls to approach you? It may be scary to approach women yourself, but waiting for them to ask first is a losing proposition.

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Too Girl Crazy? When Meeting Girls is Your #1 Hobby

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By: Chase Amante

Jul 3, 2017

Everybody says you need more in your life than just approaching girls. But when ‘girls’ becomes your obsession, how do you balance it out?

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Buddhism, the False Face, and the Paradox of Frame

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By: Hector Castillo

Mar 27, 2017

How does Buddhism relate to dating? While you refine your persona, you must put on a “false face”… Yet as you do you deceive yourself, as much as others.

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The Slave to Pussy™ Argument

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By: Chase Amante

Mar 2, 2017

Some men argue that to learn game is to be a “slave to pussy”. Is this argument valid? Or is it a flawed argument that misses the big picture?

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Tactics Tuesdays: Destroy Your Own Learned Helplessness

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By: Chase Amante

Oct 25, 2016

Our society trains men to be helpless, for several of its own reasons. But it’s important you know helplessness is learned... not inborn.

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The “I Have to Get Every Girl” Insecurity

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By: Chase Amante

Aug 27, 2016

Ever feel bad because random girls don’t like you? This is the “I have to get every girl insecurity” – and it can lose you dates and lays.

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Loser Mentality, or Why You Can’t Identify with Winners

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By: Chase Amante

Aug 9, 2016

You see a guy get success, but it doesn’t move you. You see a guy with girls all over him, but you just feel worse. Loser mentality makes everything a lot more loser-y.

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Stop Being So Considerate

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By: William Gupta

Apr 18, 2016

Being considerate is a great way to be polite and not rock the boat. Yet, if you are too considerate, you may not get what you want.

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How to Not be Needy: Small Scarcity & Big Scarcity

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By: Chase Amante

Mar 21, 2016

What does it mean when you feel needy? Well, it means something feels scarce. Which means YOU have some changes to make.

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Nobody Owes You Nothin’

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By: Chase Amante

Mar 12, 2016

If other people only care what value you provide them, why bother? Shouldn’t you be entitled to others’ value at no cost to yourself?

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