Using Sex Talk to Set a Sexual Frame with Women: Basics
May 10, 2025
Sex talk has become a popular way to sexualize conversations with girls. But arousal is only a bonus: the real purpose of sex talk is to CONTROL the FRAME!
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May 10, 2025
Sex talk has become a popular way to sexualize conversations with girls. But arousal is only a bonus: the real purpose of sex talk is to CONTROL the FRAME!
Setting the right social frame is an art you'd do well to learn to master; it is crucial in seduction.
She has her own internal frame, and you would do well to reframe it, if it is in your interest to do so.
Frames are one of the key cornerstones in pickup and seduction. But what exactly are they?
Paradiastole is a technique for reframing criticism into trophies. That vice of yours? Hey, look on the bright side! At least it means you (something good). That’s paradiastole.
Do you keep running into the same objections? Construct frames that circumvent these (and increase your odds by 3-5%).
Sometimes you make a move on a girl and she hits you with "let's just be friends." Yet just because you got one LJBF doesn't mean you're out of the running…
Do you seek approval? Is your behavior tentative or uncertain… or is it clear to women that you are confident – that you just KNOW what you are and what your value is?
To get a girl in bed quickly, it’s vital to set a sexual frame early. These one-liners are designed to do just that, by blaming women for being sex-crazed maniacs.
Every group or society has norms it expects members to follow. These norms extend to dating and romance as well. But what if you aren't from the same norm group?
You use force frames to make women (or other people) see things the way you see things. Each force frame consists of two parts: the pitch and the ditch.
In this series of posts about frame control, we’ve learned what good frames are and why they work. Now let’s talk about the methods you can use to set frames.
In this follow-up article on frame control, we discuss – from a macro perspective – how the frames you set affect your whole interaction with a girl.
Frame control makes the difference between becoming her lover or getting stuck in her friend zone. If you want sex with the women you meet, this information is vital.
