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How to Reframe Attention-Seeking Behavior in Girls

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By: Alek Rolstad

Aug 31, 2018

Attention seekers seem like great prospects, but they’ll almost certainly end up wasting your time... unless you know how to reframe their go-nowhere attitude.

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Tactics Tuesdays: When It's Okay to Flip-Flop Around Girls

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By: Chase Amante

Aug 22, 2017

Maybe you think you should never flip-flop. But flip-flopping has a time and place. Here’s how to use it well with women and on dates.

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How to Use "Weasel Words" to Implant Ideas in Her Head

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By: Alek Rolstad

Jul 28, 2017

How do you make a woman feel what you want her to feel? One way is with weasel words – phrases you slip into speech designed to elicit specific emotions.

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Tactics Tuesdays: Just Moved to Town vs. Just Passing Through

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By: Chase Amante

Jul 11, 2017

Little questions with big-impact answers: how long have you been in town, why are you single, and what do you do?

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What Do You Do If You're Caught Lying

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By: Hector Castillo

Dec 23, 2016

What do you do if you’re caught lying? Step #1: don’t start blubbering. Step #2: read this article.

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Always Hold the Moral High Ground

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By: Chase Amante

Nov 24, 2016

Sometimes a girl might stun you by taking a moral high ground stance opposite you. To address this, you must be prepared to seize it back – with prejudice.

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How to Take Girls Off Their “Scripts”

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By: Chase Amante

Aug 11, 2016

If a girl wants to hook up, and you do, that’s easy (well, easier). But what if she doesn’t want to hook up – how do you get her then?

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Tactics Tuesdays: Spin Your Flaws Into Byronic Flaws

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By: Chase Amante

Jun 14, 2016

Every man has flaws. However, with a little spin, you can turn ordinary flaws into attractive, Byronic flaws.

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Make Her Feel Like a Woman

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By: Cody Lyans

Dec 4, 2014

If you want to get somewhere with women, it won’t be by treating them like men. Rather, you must make a woman *feel* like a woman.

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The “Nice Guy” Problem: Negotiating from a Position of Weakness

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By: Chase Amante

Nov 11, 2014

How come nice guys always end up in the friend zone? What ‘gives them away’ so consistently? And – is there a way for them to beat it?

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Lowering Expectations, Then Shattering Them

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By: Cody Lyans

Sep 25, 2014

The world teaches us to have low expectations for ourselves and others. Yet, you can use this to your advantage with others in many ways.

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Sexual Prizing

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By: Alek Rolstad

Apr 19, 2014

Alek shares the origins of the strategy he calls “sexual prizing” – a must-read if you want a real handle on the method.

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Frame Control Examples: Out-Frame Anyone

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By: Chase Amante

May 15, 2013

A number of examples on how to use frame control with women and socially, along with the four tiers of framing, from top tier to bottom.

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