Schrödinger's Attraction: Women Both Want You & Don't at the Same Time
Aug 31, 2025
Understand “Schrödinger’s attraction”: a woman can be simultaneously interested and not—a state that collapses only when you make a key move.
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Aug 31, 2025
Understand “Schrödinger’s attraction”: a woman can be simultaneously interested and not—a state that collapses only when you make a key move.
Hot girls are the hardest to get. Or is it average-looking girls who are, paradoxically, the hardest? 3 theories dig in and explain.
Tests, complaints, difficulty, and betrayal. It’s easy to see why some men think women are evil. But is what they do the product of villainy?
Guys often think a girl’s hotness = how hard to get she is. But there’s a lot more to it than just her looks. 6 more things, in fact.
What do girls look for in a boyfriend? Lots: relationship goal fit, value fit, relationship promise, even the first kiss, all matter.
The chaotic atmosphere of nightclubs makes them perfect to build sexual state in – and equally perfect to lose it. To succeed in clubs you must be able to beat the risks.
Hypergamy is her tendency to date or marry ‘up’. She wants the best, richest, highest status guy she can get, they say. But science disagrees.
If a girl doesn’t think you’re in control, her attraction and respect for you suffer. Yet, you needn’t be the uptight in-control guy to show her this.
What women say and do often has multiple possible interpretations. So how do you know which one is right, and which one isn’t?
Everyone knows women roll their eyes at nice guys. But why? It’s due to one indisputable fact: women dig powerful men. And nice guys aren’t.
Your physical features, social status, and paper credentials matter less than you think. What women need is men who make them feel.
Women misremember the past all the time: motivations, chains of events, or even whether you’re good at something (or not). But why?
Many guys miss a woman’s signals, yet her intentions tell you when to go forward, and how. Using her intentions is a shortcut to success.
Why is it so important to your chances with women that you lead them? Investment and confidence are part of it… but there’s something else, too.
