Aug 21, 2025
Nightgame beginners: Learn to conquer approach anxiety, ditch cringe openers, and master venue calibration for confident, engaging interactions in clubs and bars.
What do you do when you realize you’ve ended up in a place with lots of cute women – who are hard to get anywhere with? One word: adapt.
Guys who are novices at picking up often head straight to the most popular club in town. But this is almost never the best place to pick up at.
The places most men pick to find girls in are man-friendly… and put women on guard. Yet what if you met women where they’re most at ease?
Women won’t always respond ideally to you on your first approach nightlife environs. So what can you do? Leave, reset – then return.
When a girl acts like a bitch in a bar, it’s because she doesn’t know you. Yet women prefer sleeping with strangers over friends – so what to do?
What are the pros and cons of various avenues when you’re out looking for a woman? Colt lays it all out.
How do you check out a girl without leering at her or being sneaky? And… is there a way to do it that actually turns her on? As a matter of fact – yes.
You want to start a conversation with someone new. Meet friends, make business contacts, attract dates. Use these 8 great ways and the conversation will flow.
If a girl is pretty attractive, she’ll tend to not show too much interest early on – so how can you know when women like you? Here are the major signs to look for.
When you’re feeling lighthearted, or would like to forego saying anything altogether when first meeting a girl, playful/nonverbal is the way.
Flirty women are captivating – they can make you dream, imagine, and lust. But is a flirtatious girl really into you… or is it but a game?
Situationally relevant openers are a flexible, versatile means of kicking off conversations in all manner of different surroundings.
Social anxiety is the result of something called the “spotlight effect” – an excessive (and anxiety-inducing) focus on one’s own self and reactions.
