Tactics Tuesdays: Using Girls for Intentional Preselection

Preselection is perhaps the single most powerful attractant there is.

The attraction boost you receive when a woman sees a beautiful girl behaving in an attracted way with you is +25% (study). The effect a beautiful, attracted woman flirting with you has on your attractiveness to other women is larger than looks, dominance, height, money, or confidence.

The one tool I recommend to every single guy who comes to me saying, “I feel like I’ve completely blown it with this girl; what do I do?” is preselection.

Let that girl you’ve blown it with see another good-looking girl blatantly flirting with you, and she’ll be back chasing after you as if you’d never even blown it. Sometimes (even oftentimes) it is the ONLY thing that works.

Today I’ll give you a simple-yet-nefarious tactic for eliciting OBVIOUS preselection from girls who may not even actually be all that into you.

The benefits should be obvious – but just in case they aren’t, I’ll spell them out.

Note that this is an article for intermediate-level playboys and up. You don’t have to be a seduction mastermind, but you do need a little charisma and some social savvy to pull this one off.

 

Eliciting Obvious Hot Girl Preselection

Let’s say you’re somewhere women will be able to observe you. That includes:

• A bar, lounge, nightclub, or party.

• A park or beach with many women on towels or beach chairs.

• A classroom, a happy hour, or a professional networking event.

• Honorable mention: social media.

Now, as men, we like to think that women are keeping an eye on us. And they may be, if we are peacocked, very outgoing, or stand out in some other way.

But the truth is, before a man has really hit a girl’s register as someone worth paying attention to (be that because he is intriguing in a good way or – on the negative side – someone who seems ‘off’ or creepy), she may pay little attention to him.

Do you know who women DO pay LOADS of attention to? Other women… and, in particular, other attractive women. Women are obsessed with monitoring their stiffest competitors. They want to know:

• Which guys those girls like.

• Which guys those girls treat well.

• How invested those girls are in those guys.

• How the guys react back to them.

If, for example, Susie Partygoer notices Hottie Hannah reject a couple of guys, Susie demotes those guys mentally in her head as “not on Hottie Hannah’s level.” If Susie views herself as lower level than Hottie Hannah, she might still consider those guys… but they AREN’T on Hannah’s level.

However, if Susie Partygoer then notices Hottie Hannah bound over to a man and drape herself all over him, fighting to get his attention, Susie Partygoer IMMEDIATELY becomes fascinating with that man.

Who is he?

What’s his relation to her?

Is he available?

All these questions race through Susie Partygoer’s head.

If a few minutes go by then suddenly that same man appears next to her and casually engages her in conversation, Susie Partygoer’s heart will start racing a mile a minute, her cheeks will flush, her pupils will dilate, and she’ll do whatever she needs to to show this guy she’s every bit as worthy of his attention as Hottie Hannah is.

Because that is just what women do: they compete to be the best.

And if this guy is one that even a girl as beautiful and selective as Hottie Hannah gets excited about, then gosh darn it Susie Partygoer is going to see if she can get him too.

 

What We’ll Be Going For

When we elicit hot girl preselection, we’ll be aiming to achieve a couple of things:

1. We want beautiful girls to be visibly investing in us in seemingly attracted, obvious way.

2. We want to follow the Law of Least Effort and get maximal visible investment from the girl for minimal visible effort by us.

In other words, we want to look as chill as possible while beautiful girls act very excited by us – and we want to do this somewhere visible where as many women in the vicinity can take notice.

 

Angle #1: Chick Crack

In the seduction community of the early 2000s, a common theme was the use of ‘chick crack’: tactics that, for reasons unique to the female of our species, women eat up. That includes material like:

• Astrology
• Celebrity gossip
• Cold reading
• Female opinion openers
• Handwriting analysis
• Imagine games
• Magic tricks
• Palm reading

Any of this stuff, when used properly, can elicit dramatic reactions from girls. What’s more, girls do not necessarily need to be personally attracted to you to react in an excited way – which in my opinion is what made this stuff so effective.

What you used to see with old school seducers is they’d start doing some chick crack with girls, and whether those girls were into them specifically or not, they would BEHAVE eager, excited, touchy, flirtatious, and so on – all while the guy was holding court, looking cool and in command, and everyone around paid attention.

Very often the girl the ‘chick crack user’ pulled wasn’t one of the girls he initially opened – she was a girl who saw him commanding the attention of hot girls earlier, whom he then met after peeling away from those girls. He had primed her via preselection, garnered via chick crack.

You can open with chick crack (e.g., with many types of female opinion openers). You can also transition quickly into it.

The useful thing for us – in the context of this article – is that you don’t need girls attracted to start using it. You can approach a very hot girl or two, use some chick crack on her, and everyone gets to watch this hot girl act thrilled and excited talking to you while you stay relaxed.

Every girl you open after that who saw you talk to that girl will receive you much, much warmer than she would have without having seen that display.

 

Angle #2: Effusive Girl Hunting

Another way to use girls to build preselection intentionally is by hunting for effusive girls.

Different women have different personalities, and SOME girls are very outgoing. If you can find these girls and open them – and get them behaving in an outgoing way toward YOU – you build obvious preselection.

Here’s how I do this personally:

1. While scouting through a venue or area, I keep my eyes open for a girl who seems particularly animated and bubbly while talking to her friends.

2. I will then plan an approach so I end up right near where this girl is, ideally in a position to quickly lock in.

3. Once next to her, I’ll ping her and/or pre-open her and, if she responds, then I’ll properly open her.

4. I’ll then normally use some combination of cold reads (chick crack), genuine compliments, and subtle touches to get her acting in enthusiastic ways.

5. One she is hooked, I will make some subtle moves designed to get her overtly investing more in me. If it’s loud, I may lean my head back a bit and point to my ear so she will lean in to talk to me. If I’m locked in, I may motion her over a bit so she moves directly in front of me to speak to me. Anyone watching from the outside just sees a hot, animated girl leaning in to talk to me or standing on the outside trying to talk to me while I am locked in.

6. If possible, I will aim to stretch this conversation out to four or five minutes. If her friends are hot, I will have her introduce them to me too, and aim to have a duo or trio of good-looking girls around me, all leaning in and acting intrigued and excited.

7. Mission accomplished, I exit the situation so that I can be seen as the one leaving (after four or five minutes of happy chatting – so everyone watching KNOWS I was not rejected; I left of my own accord). I’ll tell the girl or girls they’re really fun people and I hope we can chat again. They’ll all be yelling and shouting agreement to that to keep the good vibes up as I leave, and so, once again, everyone sees a hot girl or several hot girls calling after me excitedly as I depart.

I can hear the guys in the comments already: “But what if one of the girls you open this way likes you? Do you still walk away?”

Yes! It’s called shotgun opening and reopening.

READ MORE: Shotgun Opening and Reopening Women Later in the Night

Alek Rolstad does the same thing; he calls it hit-and-run pickup.

Walking away creates a takeaway, which bolsters the already existing attraction any of the girls might have had to you by making you scarce. Just go around, talk to some more people, and find your way back to the girls again after 35 or 40 minutes. Or sooner, if you notice the girl who likes you staring at you like a piece of meat from across the way – never say no to a clear invitation!

 

How to Make Sure You Are Seen

Of course, preselection only works if women see the other women acting attracted to you.

Therefore, wherever you build it, it MUST be somewhere VISIBLE!

If you see a beautiful girl tucked away in a corner hidden away from everyone, that doesn’t work. The only time a girl like that is useful for this is if you’re confident you can lead her out of there, to somewhere in front of lots of people.

Thus, your two options for ensuring you’re seen are:

1. Finding girls who are already somewhere highly visible that you can use for preselection, OR

2. Finding girls you think you can lead, and lead them TO someplace visible once they’re hooked.

Those are your options.

At least one of them must be true – or else any preselection you think you’re building, no matter how hot the girl and how blatant and seemingly one-sided her interest, it won’t have an impact on the other women around, because they will not see it.

You must make sure girls see the hot girl preselecting you if you want it to have an effect.

 

Wrap Up: Using Girls for Intentional Preselection

Is this mean?

Doesn’t this mean you are using women as TOOLS to gain attraction from OTHER women?

Don’t be silly! All you are doing is giving a girl a conversation so fun and engaging that she can’t help but get animated.

In the process, you’re also showing off for everyone in eyeshot that you are quite the charmer indeed. Girls take notice of this – and find you more intriguing, more socially desirable, and (most important for us) more attractive.

Chase Amante