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Guys do a lot of dumb stuff with girls. But the worst is when guys think dumb things they’re doing are smart! Don’t be guilty of these 7 bonehead moves.

Over on the forum we had a member post how a wingman of his told him it’s a bad move to let girls drive you around on dates. It leads to a “loss of frame”, the wing claimed, because then you are not in control of the car. You are under her power. His wingman further claimed that:

Also, anything can happen when a girl is in the driving seat, such as she can go to any place she wants that is not within my seduction plan. A girl's mind is emotional so her plans can change anytime, and we would like to reduce the chances of this.

This is some real dumb, keyboard jockey thinking on the wingman’s part here. As a guy who never, ever has liked to drive women around if he can avoid it – and hasn’t driven at all in many years now; in fact, my driver’s license is nine years expired, likely to never be renewed – let me just tell you: having women chauffeur you around is the best thing in the world.

And yes, you are more likely to end up in bed with them when they do the driving than you do when you do it.

But this article isn’t just about driving.

It’s about all the dumb moves guys make on dates (plus the initial approach too), which they think improve their positions with girls, that actually make things worse.

These unconventional science- and experienced-based tips from a skilled seducer will take your libido to the stratosphere… assuming you follow them.

Last week I talked to someone who’d just tried testosterone replacement therapy (TRT). He’s actively dating and bedding new girls, but he wanted an extra edge to boost his sex drive up even higher.

The result of his TRT experiment was not good: while on the therapy he found himself beset with anxiety until he finally quit and went back to normal.

If you’re living in the West right now, you’ve likely been trained to believe something like “the solution to any problem is to pump more laboratory chemicals into your body!” Pills, supplements, hormones, fortified foods, inoculations, patches, vapes, you name it. The only thing I’m not seeing pushed much these days is suppositories (maybe they’ll make a comeback though). Just find the right elixir and eat/drink/inject it in, and voila! Miracle cure!

A few hundred years ago, alchemy was all the rage in Europe, with people busily concocting mixtures and potions hoping to solve all kinds of biological problems, often resulting in injury or even death of the imbiber of said concoctions. We laugh at that now, then we turn right around and load ourselves up with pharmaceuticals that every year more and more get revealed to have some sort of disastrous (or even mortal) effect upon the body… and often the promised result is marginal, fleeting, illusory, or none.

This article ignores all the witches’ brews, alchemical formulae, miracle jungle plants, multicolored sea slug compounds, and Big Pharma-produced Wonder Drugs™ to give you tips to raise your libido by as much as you want using nothing more than your lifestyle.

Because, as we’re about to discuss, the problem men are having with testosterone and libido is NOT a “chemical imbalance” problem that needs fixin’ with yet more chemicals and hormones… it is a LIFESTYLE problem.

Five new GirlsChase.TV videos await. Also in this article: an opportunity to join GC.TV as a creator… PLUS a preview of some of our latest creators to join.

We’re up and running again with a solid batch of new GirlsChase.TV content (after a stretch of buggy tech problems not being able to upload videos for a while… running your own in-house YouTube is hard!).

But first, before I get into the latest videos – are you a seasoned seducer who’d like to build his own brand and become a GirlsChase.TV star? Come join the GirlsChase.TV team. Build a following, promote your offers, and make a little pocket change on the site while you’re at it. See this forum post for the full details on how you can become a GC TV star.

That exciting news out of the way, here’s the latest.

An interested woman uses very different body language from an uninterested one. Yet many men read her signals wrong! Here’s how to read her properly.

How do you know if a girl is interested?

Her body language tells you so!

In this guide to reading women’s interested body language, we’ll take a look at five (5) different postures a woman can be in while with you and what each posture means.

Once you know what to look for, you’ll be a romantic mind reader – and won’t need to second guess the attraction of your date.

When you talk to a girl and feel an amazing connection, you expect it to be mutual, right? So why do girls you connect with just vanish? 3 reasons, and all of them are solvable.

I’ve been coaching guys on their love lives for over a decade-and-a-half now, yet this one mystifying complaint shows up again and again:

Why did this girl I had an amazing connection with disappear?

This problem perplexes men when it occurs. It seemingly defies all the rules of logic + sense! Great connection = want to see each other again… right?

So why the heck do girls you have a great connection with vanish?

In fact, there are THREE (3) common reasons this occurs – all of which aren’t things men normally consider as potential reasons a girl might ghost.

We’ll have a look at them all, and then we’ll talk what to do to avoid these boondoggles of connections happening to you.

Many girls you’ll see out and about come in groups of two. Should you approach two-girl groups? Consider these 7 logistical and 10 girl-related factors.

Hey guys. I hope you are doing well.

Lately, I have dedicated numerous posts to opening, hooking, and group theory, including handling big groups and their dynamics.

Today, I’ll explore a topic I have been hesitant about discussing: how to deal with two-sets (groups of two girls). I often get questions about groups of two, especially from my students. Groups of three or four are common at night, but unfortunately, you’ll see groups of two girls often, too.

I say “unfortunately” because dealing with groups of two is the most challenging group size to deal with. It is hard to isolate your girl when she is with one friend. More importantly, they can be frustrating to deal with because many factors determining your success are out of your direct control, and there are hazards to navigate. If you want consistent results in night game, you need to limit those hazardous elements. Sure, sometimes chaos and hazards work in your favor, but generally, the more skilled you are, the more you can get control over difficult situations.

What hazards do you encounter with groups of two? I will explain how to limit hazards and give pointers on when it is worth it to opt for a group of two and when it is not. Using these tips will help you limit the hazardous elements by proper decision-making, which is an underrated and under-discussed element in pickup and seduction.

I will cover different strategies in next week’s post on how you can run two-sets. I will not discuss strategies with a wingman. Dealing with a group of two is more manageable then because you can smoothly isolate your girl if your wingman is doing a good job with her friend. Even better, you may do a “double” when you and your wing pull a group of two girls together. (It isn’t easy to pull off, but it is very satisfying.) I will not review this strategy today because the usual issues will not surface when you have a good wingman. The wingman strategy requires a separate post I intend to write about soon.