How do you turn a girl you’ve slept with into a friend? There are a few rules to follow – but also some pitfalls you must avoid.
Just dug an old topic out of my ‘topic ideas’ grab bag. A member of the Girls Chase forums, some years back, asked another member:
1. Who Does the Friend Zoning?
2. How to Turn Girls into Friends
3. 5 Rules to Post-Sex Friendships
- Don’t Have Sex
- Avoid Tempting Situations
- Don’t Talk About Currents
- Don’t Let Her Meet Currents
- Keep Her Cordoned Off
4. Downsides to Friending Lovers
“You mentioned keeping these girls around as friends. Would you recommend this for women I’ve already slept with and hung out with for a bit? If so, how would you make that transition?”
... and that member responded:
“This is beyond my level. Maybe chase can shine some light on this topic. How to turn girls you’ve slept with into friends. Article worthy?”
I went into details in my response on that thread, but I’d like to explore the topic more today. How do you turn a girl you’ve slept with into a friend?
I’ve done it several times (I’ll explain why not more than that
below), and it is eminently doable. However, there are some nuances
involved in it
you will have to keep in mind... to not have it blow up in your face,
one way or another.
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