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Why You Absolutely Need to Commit

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By: William Gupta

Dec 14, 2015

You will struggle to improve with women (and in life) if you can’t commit to doing so. But for many men, commitment is difficult to make.

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How to Quit Being Self-Conscious in Nighttime Venues

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By: Cody Lyans

Sep 10, 2015

There’s a temptation in bars and nightclubs to stay passive and not rock the boat. But if you do this, it can be hard to meet new women.

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What to Focus on When You Meet Girls Clubbing

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By: Cody Lyans

Aug 21, 2015

Most men take things too seriously when they head out to meet girls clubbing. What should you focus on? Not getting a big head, avoiding assumptions, and simplicity, to start.

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Being Yourself: How Important is Congruence?

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By: Alek Rolstad

Oct 23, 2014

“Just be yourself” can be distracting and ineffective advice. However, there is a kernel of truth buried within it: that of congruence.

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First Time Picking Up Girls? 3 Key Mindsets to Help

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By: Cody Lyans

Aug 2, 2014

When you’re new to picking up, it’s easy to get overwhelmed by sensation. To do well, you must remain focused… and calmed.

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Why Most Guys Perform Badly at Game In Bars and Clubs – And What to Do About It

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By: Halvor Jannike

Jul 24, 2014

If you’re struggling to meet women in bars and nightclubs, it’s ultimately because you’re lacking in one of two (2) key departments.

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What Role Should Women Play in the Mating Game?

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By: Chase Amante

Apr 16, 2014

Isn’t it unfair that men have to do EVERYTHING, so much of the time, to get women in bed? Here’s how persistence really factors in.

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8 Useful Mindsets for Meeting Women in Nightclubs

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By: Alek Rolstad

Mar 28, 2014

What does it take to succeed at meeting women in nightclubs? These 8 mindsets, that’s what.

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Why You Absolutely Need to Assume Attraction with Women

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By: Chase Amante

Mar 26, 2014

You’ve heard “assume attraction” – but exactly what does that mean, and to what extent should you assume it with women?

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How Important Is It to Have Fun When Meeting Women?

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By: Colt Williams

Mar 17, 2014

There are two styles of achievement – that driven by metrics, and that driven by fun. Success with women requires proficiency at both.

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Real Empiricists Test

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By: Chase Amante

Mar 11, 2014

A reader asks to be convinced, but the response is not what he expects: go try it out and decide for yourself. Real empiricists test.

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Should I Make Her My Girlfriend?

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By: Alek Rolstad

Feb 20, 2014

How do you know if you’re ready to make a girl your girlfriend or not? Well, it has as much to do with you, yourself, as it does with her.

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The Art of Learning to Pick Up and Sleep with Girls

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By: Alek Rolstad

Jan 19, 2014

Alek takes a magnifying glass to the process of learning seduction – how hard is it? How long does it take? What are the major hang-ups? And, is it worth it?

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