Girl Hunting: Pickiness vs. Selectiveness
Feb 11, 2021
Many guys are ‘too picky’ with girls. They ignore good-looking and great girls. Then end up alone, or stuck with girls who are bad news. You must escape this trap.
Feb 11, 2021
Many guys are ‘too picky’ with girls. They ignore good-looking and great girls. Then end up alone, or stuck with girls who are bad news. You must escape this trap.
If you want to really get good with women and you're going out regularly to meet them, you won't find success by just talking to a few here and a few there. You need to be thinking in numbers.
Guys new to dating always want to make things "fun:" dates, conversations, random outings with women. What they often don't realize though is that "fun" and "sexy' are two very different things.
An abundance mentality is good, but what happens when you know you can get girls but you're still afraid of losing those *special* girls? In that case, you still lack one thing: ABSOLUTE abundance.
Goal setting (and sticking to those goals) is integral to making progress in any undertaking - getting good with women and dating included.
There's no need to get defensive over most "attacks" on you by women - simply shrug them off, and appear all the more attractive for your efforts.
If you want to do anything even remotely related to people or work or building anything of any kind, you need purpose. And the stronger your purpose is, the more success you will see.
You know more about all this than you think you do. Big difference between experienced guys and inexperienced guys: the experienced ones pay attention to their guts, and heed them.
Lots of men go out to get women to "like" them, and never push hard or drive toward any concrete objective or end point. But to truly succeed with girls consistently, a man must have intent.
Who's right - the man who takes relationships seriously, and is easily hurt, or the man who laughs them off, but never gets much involved? Both, and neither - it's ultimately all just a game.
The Law of Least Effort specifies that the more someone can achieve with the less visible effort, the more powerful and attractive he will appear.
What is it about nice guys that women can't stand? In one word: fear. It's a fear of being truthful about their desires, and a fear of what will happen if they are.
If you want one quick, easy tool to add to your toolbox that will immediately help turn you into a more sexual man, you want this: the ability to view women as sex objects to be acted upon.
Randomness plays a much bigger role in your failures and successes than you might think. The big lesson from this one is this: if you want to hit a lot of homeruns, you need to take a lot of swings.
Is it possible that merely imagining success can help you to achieve it? Chase believes it is, and he discusses how to use this mental imagery to drive your efforts in collecting wins.
