Tactics Tuesdays: Innocuous Openers
Jul 8, 2025
Men opening women in bold, in-her-face, ‘manly’ ways is common today. Pickup lines are common too. You know what’s not? The easy openers: innocuous ones.
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Jul 8, 2025
Men opening women in bold, in-her-face, ‘manly’ ways is common today. Pickup lines are common too. You know what’s not? The easy openers: innocuous ones.
When you open a new conversation with a girl, it should be casual. You want to keep the pressure low to avoid spooking her and scaring her off.
Being able to assess difficulty is a key tool in seduction, as it helps you optimize your efficiency and success rate.
Men are afraid of rejection. But there are ways to optimize yourself to rarely encounter it.
Resistance is not rejection. Pros know this and calibrate accordingly. Novices think it's the end of their chances with the girl they're talking to.
There are two tried and tested ways to approach a mixed group. One is to wait for the opportune moment. The other? Mystery Method.
Mixed groups are more challenging than single-girl sets. But are all guys with girls signs of a mixed set?
A lot of guys bail out of their interactions with women too soon. How do you stop ejecting from women, and start winning with them?
What places are the BEST to meet women at? Well, it’s not dance clubs, the street, or the metro. In fact, those are among the WORST. The best include some places many don’t even think to frequent.
If she's objecting to something, check yourself. If you have tight fundamentals, persist.
Women put a lot of signals out there. Yet, there are things women do that men THINK signal interest to them… but nevertheless are distractions.
If nightclubs are open in your area, yet subject to social distancing restrictions, can you still meet women at them? Or are your nightlife prospects… LOCKED DOWN?
Ever try to predict how good a place will be to meet girls by looking at a map or talking to people? If you have, you'll know how wrong you often get it. But… why?
COVID-19 has brought challenges, but there’s always a way to flourish in the dating game. These backup plans will help you keep both of your heads happy.
