Women check out from relationships with checklist boyfriends & husbands. Being the ‘checklist guy’ is the last thing you want – so here’s how to not be it.There’s a phenomenon I have observed where men and women who get dumped and do not understand why reel off a checklist of ‘qualifying characteristics’.
Discover how to use playful “trouble frames” to create a flirtatious, engaging dynamic and turn a simple conversation into a compelling connection.I just had a call with a mentorship client in which he’d opened a pair of girls in a bar with a very natural opinion opener but hadn’t been sure where to take it from there.
Understand “Schrödinger’s attraction”: a woman can be simultaneously interested and not—a state that collapses only when you make a key move.Here’s a concept I think is very important for men to understand, that most men clearly do not understand, and that I have never seen properly detailed before.
Use the non-invitation, a playful chase frame, to suggest a date without the risk of a direct rejection. 
The “Let Me See Your Hands” routine is a simple bit of banter (lifted straight from improv comedy) that lets you rope women deeper into your seductions.When you first approach a girl, you need to achieve a few things in relatively quick succession:
Men’s conversations with women turn boring or platonic when key attractive elements are missing. See 4 common ‘boring convo’ mistakes + how to fix them.I’ve heard and read a bunch of conversations from guys recently as they talk to girls where the girl gets bored and pulls away. These conversations have varied from:
Hit the right balance of making her feel special while also replaceable. The 'No Takebacks Rule' keeps her hooked by making endings final—no second chances.This article is more relevant to relationships than it is to seduction—however, it plays its part there too.
Generally, I find that men are only able to do ONE (1) of these:
Many guys struggle to get over their exes. Especially when they 1.) still claim her and 2.) don’t rebound right. Here’s HOW to get over your ex & move ON.A reader writes to ask:
Subtly frame yourself as a lover, not a boyfriend, with these 8 behavioral shifts. Make her see you as irresistible—shattering her resistance as you do.Here’s a topic I know the Girls Chase audience will enjoy. This just came up in another coaching call with a long-term mentorship student (I am getting a lot of good topic ideas from these conversations right now).
