People claim pickup artistry doesn’t work for all sorts of reasons. Those reasons range from being clueless, to Dunning-Kruger, to social blind spots, to even being an ‘unconscious player’. 
A girl’s ignoring you and doesn’t seem to care. If you disapprove of her, will that get her chasing? Often not; she needs to value your approval FIRST!I want to discuss a concept that is very important for any man hoping to wield any influence over a woman in any kind of romantic or social context.
How do you pick up a girl in a big group when she isn’t interested? Well, you’re going to have to win over her group, while IGNORING her, first.There are men of various persuasions when it comes to seduction.
The majority of men fall into the camp known as ‘satisficers’:
Women are only as boring as a man allows them to be. A good conversationalist knows how to draw the interesting bits out of her and avoid it being boring.Sheath your daggers! This will make a lot more sense in just a moment.
How do you have sex with a girl you like? Step 1: get her one-on-one. Step 2: create sexual tension. Step 3: build compliance. Step 4-9: seal the deal.Going for sex the first time with a girl you’ve never slept with always feels like a risk.
What if you read her wrong and she doesn’t like you like that?
What if you move too fast and she isn’t ready for intimacy yet?
Wait too long to make a move on a girl, and attraction expires. But what if you want to preserve a woman’s attraction without making a move? Here’s how.Every regular Girls Chase reader knows attraction has an expiration date.
Women avoid sex that feels obligatory. If it’s just another chore, like doing laundry, it’s not fun. If you want her DESIRE, sex needs to LAST LONG and be very PLEASURABLE for her.The #1 complaint I see from men in very long-term relationships is about the sex drying up.
If you’re a single man over the age of 23, there’s an excellent chance you’re attracted to women younger than you.
But: is it POSSIBLE to date women who are your juniors?
Do you have to be a “Mr. Moneybags” to even have a shot with such girls?
Haven’t women stopped going for older men altogether in our day and age of social media shaming and height-, looks-, and age-regimented online dating?
I break down these topics in a pair of new videos, live now on GirlsChase.TV.
Pulling girls home can be dicey. What do you discuss? How do you avoid cold feet? Future projection & role-plays to the rescue for all your pulling needs!Last year, in the first installment of my dogged follow-up series, Robby requested the following:
How do you move between groups, mingling, and make a big splash in a short amount of conversation? The mini deep dive + 4 more steps are THE way.Commenting on my article about finding the most interesting woman (rather than, necessarily, the hottest), Laurent asks:
