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We’ve seen five new videos on GirlsChase.TV over the past couple weeks. In case you haven’t kept up on the content there, here’s what you may have missed – and may want to check out.
Articles by Author: Chase Amante
Seduction as Offense vs. Resistance as Defense
In many ways, seduction is analogous to warfare. Yet men’s seduction – offense here – need not be ‘hostile’ towards women’s defensive ‘resistance’!I’ve dived back into reading On War, Carl von Clausewitz’s masterful treatise on military action. I’d taken a break to read some fiction (such as Edgar Rice Burroughs’s peak masculinity adventure stories) and a few other non-fiction books on various subjects, but now, like a band of pillagers that struck off temporarily to replenish its supplies before returning to the siege, I’ve wandered back.
Clausewitz speaks often about friction, his term for difficulties doing just about anything in war – a force that bogs down what should be simple maneuvers and plays spoiler to otherwise sound strategies. I’d like to write about how this relates to seduction too… but for today the topic is something else.
Because as Clausewitz talks about offense and defense, I see many parallels there to our topic of discussion here. In many ways, within a romance, the ‘offense’ is the efforts to seduce – while the ‘defense’ is the efforts to resist that seduction.
What I’d like to do is highlight some takeaways from Clausewitz that apply every bit to the romantic battlefield as they do the martial one.
After all, as they say, all’s fair in love and war, and the two fields have their similarities.
Sleeping with Girls Who Are 'Done with Casual Sex'
Many girls will tell you they are ‘done with causal sex’… then resist your escalation to sex. What does this mean – and HOW do you sleep with such girls?Tactics Tuesdays: Cool Guy Emulation
Cool guys behave in subtly different ways than guys who just ‘do what cool guys do’ without BEING cool. How can you emulate this and actually BECOME cool?What are you focused on when you’re talking to girls? Is it:
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Looking out for cues and responding to signals?
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Active listening to understand what she’s saying and feed it back to her?
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Using good tactics and making the right moves to progress things forward?
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Worrying about what she thinks of you and whether you are doing it right?
These are all useful things to focus on when you are learning them.
They are also things you will be aware of in the back of your head even once you have learned them.
However, guys who are good don’t have any of these things as primary foci with girls. Instead, these are background processes occurring in their heads, keeping an eye on their interactions for them, calibrating on the fly.
What do skilled, cool guys focus on when they talk to girls?
That’s what we’ll talk about today.
That, and how to emulate such guys, so you can get similar results to them too.
9 Pieces of Red Pill Dating Advice that Are Blue Pill AF
Red pill offers a lot of dating advice to curious men. While this advice can seem good on the surface, much of it is lifted directly from the ‘blue pill’.Seduction has a strange relationship with the red pill. The two fields have plenty of overlap on many things, but there’re also some glaring (often diametrically opposed) contrasts in perspectives and practices.
When the red pill first split off from the seduction community in the late 2000-naughts, it more or less carbon copied the dating advice of seduction, albeit infused with politics and just a dash of cynical avoidance. Since that time, it’s exploded in size, becoming an enormous ideological sect that dwarfs its seduction community forebear. Yet as it’s grown, it’s also transmogrified so radically that a lot of its dating advice has altered as well, in some cases becoming rigid and dogmatic, and in others completely watered down.
There are some reasons for this that are worth a brief address. If you don’t care about the reasons and history, however, you can just skip down to #1 and get right to the ‘advice’.
First though, let’s talk exactly how red pill dating advice became such weak sauce.
