Tactics Tuesdays: Messaging Girls on Friday Night
A high-risk, high-reward tactic: learn when and how to break the rule of messaging girls on Friday night for surprising results (dates, lays, & more).
A high-risk, high-reward tactic: learn when and how to break the rule of messaging girls on Friday night for surprising results (dates, lays, & more).
Doggedly following up with girls can get you girls. But why? Isn’t it try-hard? Doesn’t it make you look bad? Dogged yet CALIBRATED follow up is neither – and here is why.Commenting on my article about following up doggedly with girls, Alejandro says:
Chase,
Guys often give up on girls they’re texting with far too easily. If you want to get the date & girl, you must be more dogged – and COOLER – than this.I just spoke with a client who’s making a lot of approaches but struggling to overcome a flat delivery that’s a little too far into “nice guy” territory.
Women check out from relationships with checklist boyfriends & husbands. Being the ‘checklist guy’ is the last thing you want – so here’s how to not be it.There’s a phenomenon I have observed where men and women who get dumped and do not understand why reel off a checklist of ‘qualifying characteristics’.
Discover how to use playful “trouble frames” to create a flirtatious, engaging dynamic and turn a simple conversation into a compelling connection.I just had a call with a mentorship client in which he’d opened a pair of girls in a bar with a very natural opinion opener but hadn’t been sure where to take it from there.
Understand “Schrödinger’s attraction”: a woman can be simultaneously interested and not—a state that collapses only when you make a key move.Here’s a concept I think is very important for men to understand, that most men clearly do not understand, and that I have never seen properly detailed before.
Use the non-invitation, a playful chase frame, to suggest a date without the risk of a direct rejection.
The “Let Me See Your Hands” routine is a simple bit of banter (lifted straight from improv comedy) that lets you rope women deeper into your seductions.When you first approach a girl, you need to achieve a few things in relatively quick succession:
Men’s conversations with women turn boring or platonic when key attractive elements are missing. See 4 common ‘boring convo’ mistakes + how to fix them.I’ve heard and read a bunch of conversations from guys recently as they talk to girls where the girl gets bored and pulls away. These conversations have varied from: