Sometime
back ago, when I was still new to learning about seduction,
I shared with a friend the tale of a girl I'd gone out with and the
sexual dialogue I'd tried using to get her mind going the right way...
and how disappointed I was it hadn't seemed to have had the desired
effect.
“My man,” I remember him saying to me at the time, “I notice you
keep trying to use words to
get women excited and turned on. But words
aren't very good at this. You need to use sexual
tension.”
And I heard this, and I thought it sounded
like a great idea... except I had no idea how to create sexual tension,
how to use it, or where to even start with it. And my friend, for all
his wisdom, was at a loss to explain it.
So, I did what any real student of anything does who is unable to
find the answer by simpler means, and I embarked on a quest to discover
the mechanisms of this phenomenon and to find the key to unlock its
power for myself.
Recently, years later, I found myself in the opposite position,
recommending to readers that they use sexual tension, this time in the “How to Kiss a Girl” article from
last week, and having the very first commenter on the post, a guy named
Josh, remark:
“I
would like to see a post on sexual tension. How and when to create it
and sustain it. I see you mention touching and proximity to create this
and maybe some eye contact that last just a little to long. Those along
with some playful banter maybe as well? It's amazing how much of
flirting and seduction are non-verbal.”
Well Josh, the fortunate thing is, unlike my friend from that
conversation past, this is one I had to put together over time and
figure out the puzzle pieces for, and I can both tell you how to create
it, and tell you how to use it.
Now let me show you how you can build and
direct sexual tension to drive the women you meet lusty, horny, and
randy, in minutes or less.