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A mental priority of men and women alike is to preserve internal consistency. Threats to that cause resistance – both in the women you want, and in you, yourself.People do and say a lot of hypocritical things.
But what happens when you call someone out on an act of hypocrisy? Does he say, "Whoops, my bad! You caught me slipping"?
No, of course not. That almost never happens.
Instead, the usual reaction is what? Defensiveness and denial. Auto-rejection is also a common response.
Imagine you try to go home with a girl you met at a bar, and she tells you, "I don't just hook up with some guy I just met." But two hours later, you see her leaving the bar... with some other guy she met after she talked to you.
So you stop her and, feeling a little salty, say to her, "I thought you didn't go home with guys you just met?"
How will she react?
I think you can imagine how she will.
She'll either be:
Incensed: "What are you, my dad? Get away from me!"
Denying: "Actually we know each other" (might be a lie!)
Embarrassed: "Umm, I just need to go home now, sorry John" (you cockblocked the other guy)
At no point is she going to just say, "Ha, good point! You caught me in an act of inconsistency. Bully for you!" then just continue with what she was doing.
But internal consistency goes a lot deeper than this.
It reaches the way a man interacts with a woman he wants to pair with, or with another man he wants to form a connection with.
And it even reaches the heart of a man's very thoughts about himself, the way he conducts his life, and his ability (or inability) to do what he needs to do.
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Want to optimize your seductions? Step 1: learn effective canned routine concepts. Step 2: “naturalize” those concepts to fit your personal approach and style.Hey guys!
Last week, in response to a reader’s question, I detailed the pros and cons of using canned routines to seduce women.
To recap, the benefits of using scripted gambits are:
You have well-thought-out techniques that have been tried and rehearsed by others designed to work at your disposal
Others can try your routine, comment, add changes and tweaks. This benefits the community
You have a working tool in your arsenal. You avoid talking for the sake of talking, and you can accomplish a specific goal with your words
It can reduce your nervousness when opening since you have a well-tested routine or gambit that has worked in the past. You don’t have to rationalize for not opening because you don’t have a good opener. Now you have one
Beginners especially can benefit from having clear guidelines for what works and what doesn’t in seduction. This is likely THE MOST important point
The cons:
Even though gambits show you what to say, you may find yourself in a protracted interaction where you run out of gambits and are left with nothing to say
The delivery can sometimes be artificial since it may not calibrate to you or your personality (probably why many men got seduced by the idea of “natural game” since it focuses on being more “you”). Guys can get stuck delivering a rehearsed script that mismatches the vibe of the interaction and the venue
You have little flexibility; you end up stuck within the gambit
Sometimes a magical gambit that worked 90% of the time will not work on a certain chick for whatever reason. (A dogmatic routine user would argue that you should learn more routines; a good solution, but it’s not the most effective, as we will see, and surely not the most pleasant)
You may feel alienated from the material since it is not yours (the exception is when you create your own material, which more experienced seducers do, myself included!)
Last week I discussed these pros and cons while sharing some historical elements behind routine-based game and why it lost popularity.
However, I realized I did not present a solution to the problem. Is natural game the way to go? Or should you stick to routines? In my opinion, the answer lies somewhere in between. Ideally, we would like to gather as many of the benefits of routine-based game while keeping it natural. In other words, get the best of both worlds.
I want to present my view of “naturalized” game. I initially wrote a post titled “Naturalized Game” around 2008. It didn’t get much attention, partly because it was short and did not deliver anything mind-blowing then. I did not spend the time or effort to make a good, solid argument for my position. But I intend to do so today.
Note that I have stuck with naturalized game since that day.
Before I discuss what this concept is and how it works, I need to clarify a few ideas.
It’s 2021, and we’re still dating the old-fashioned (and very unsafe) way. It’s time to do things different. It’s time for HomeDate.I know we're pretty far into the charisma-touch-lifestyle launch right now, but I just couldn't help announcing the progress on the secret 'skunk works' project we've had in the works since mid-last year.
It's just too juicy, and there are too many exciting things happening with it, for me to keep it to myself.
Quick cultural relevance recap: sometime during the Enlightenment, Western society decided its central value was that of liberty. Revolutions occurred, nations bled, and tens of millions lost their lives in pursuit of this ideal.
But recently we've realized liberty is actually a very dangerous concept. It isn't what we thought it was. That's why the new central value of Western society is safety.
All that liberty doesn't do you a whole lot of good when you're lying in the gutter, coughing up blood, dying of coronavirus, does it?
And as society's changed, Girls Chase has been under more and more pressure to change with it.
The fact is, it's not very safe to meet women these days.
You could catch a disease, like coronavirus, bird flu, hepatitis, or SARS.
You could be the victim of a hate crime, such as someone saying something mean to you.
You're forced to endure rejection, rudeness, and other unpleasantries that could lower your self-esteem. Meanwhile you risk inconveniencing others, who may not want your approach.
We have all this new technology progress has brought us.
So why are we still doing dating the old way?
Well, we listened to the market -- which has switched more and more away from bars, nightclubs, parties, and social events (most of which are illegal now in many places, anyway), to, instead, meeting via dating apps (which are now the #1 way people meet new partners, accounting for fully 19% of new relationships) -- and we've listened to our audience, who have increasingly told us we are "not with the times" for focusing so much on outdated in-person dating and not on apps.
I, personally, also realized which direction the market was heading in. And the fact is, you can't fight progress.
So, we went to the drawing board, put our thinking caps on, and cooked up something unlike anything the world's seen before.
We're calling it 'HomeDate', and it's the safe dating substitute that is going to totally change the way you (and everybody else on Earth) does dating and mating.
The final video before the big CHARISMA-TOUCH-LIFESTYLE launch (this Saturday) is now out.
The subject is 'propinquity' -- a word psychologists use to describe one of the most important concepts underlying who ends up dating, hooking up with, and marrying whom; who ends up becoming friends with whom; who ends up working what jobs, and advancing to what level in their careers; and more.
If you want to command your lifestyle, and not just float through life, you MUST know about propinquity. You can watch my video on it here:
Watch the new video by Chase on propinquity… scientists’ term for the “universal current” that runs through every man’s life, and influences the women (and men) who enter his life. 
You have something sexual you want to tell a girl or show her, but it’s inappropriate. How do you get around its impropriety? By baiting her into begging you to share it with her.Want a simple little tactic you can use to bait girls into asking you things you couldn't/wouldn't normally be able to get away with in conversation?
Because there are some things that you really cannot just come out and drop on a girl, without it being too forward or out-of-place.
The solution, if you want to use a really forward compliment or bring up or show her something really sketchy is to lure her into asking you for it, pushing you for it, so that when you finally drop it on her, "she asked for it."
With a little good framing, this is not hard to do at all.
Note: while this tactic is simple, it requires a fair degree of calibration, and thus its use is a bit more advanced. So this will mostly be for intermediate and up guys (and really is for more advanced seducers).
Beginners may still find it interesting to read about, if purely for the psychology aspect.
My second video (in advance of the charisma-touch-lifestyle launch) is up now.
The topic is touch. Specifically, how to use touch to differentiate yourself from the vast majority of men women meet.
Most men touch women. But there's a wrinkle in the way they touch them that makes it come across not quite right.
Men more experienced with women learn to touch women in a way that's different from the way most men touch.
Watch the video here:
Start attracting and seducing women with touch. 
The way you think about things can help you seduce more women, or it can hurt you. Recognizing whether a mindset helps or hurts is key to adopting healthier beliefs.In seduction, there are mindsets that are helpful to a man's seductive efforts, and there are mindsets that are unhelpful to them.
Helpful mindsets can be cultivated and used. Unhelpful ones should be pruned.
Much of the time when we talk about mindsets, I focus on talking about unhelpful mindsets to prune. Why don't I talk about helpful mindsets more? Because often when you talk about helpful mindsets, men either cannot relate to them (because those specific mindsets do not resonate with them, personally) or even find them boastful (even if it isn't how you intend).
There's an interesting phenomenon though where one man's unhelpful mindset is another man's helpful one.
To get you thinking clearer about your own mentalities, I'd like to take you through an 'unhelpful vs. helpful' mindset review and give you a chance to figure out which each of your own thoughts is.
I've got a new, free video out in advance of the 3-in-1 launch of my charisma, touch, and lifestyle courses. This video's on a simple trick you can use to be more charismatic in groups, starting today:
