Social Order, Sexual Restriction, and the Secret Society
Note from Chase: this is a very
thoughtful - and pretty deep - article by Alek exploring the cultural
mechanics underlying social controls placed on individual sexual
expression in modern Western societies. This isn't a "how-to" article;
it's more a "here's how things work a few levels down" type piece. It's
somewhat heavy stuff, but a rewarding read if you don't mind letting
your brain work a bit. Here's Alek.
After having produced a number of practical articles recently, I wanted to write a more theory-heavy post on sexual ethics.
Before I begin, I would like to deliver a disclaimer. It should be noted that this piece is purely theoretical and an abstraction of how the mating game works. The world is a complex place, and it is impossible to describe every aspect of a social phenomenon.
Further, I would also point out that even though this essay might have anthropological elements, it remains a work in political/social theory.
This means that this text is not only descriptive in its nature (i.e., explaining “what is the case”) but also has a normative essence with the means of explaining “for what reasons things should be the way they are” or “what should be the case”.
On a particularly long day, after an 8 hour drive home
from Northern
Wisconsin on vacation, I was feeling tired, and the day’s events had
hit
me.
As a
follow-up to yesterday's article, "
We
get comments and questions on here every so often where I see
guys saying they think girls are still in love with them, then
detailing behavior that makes it clear the girl is most assuredly not
anywhere 
When you
enter
a club or a mall or a party and you see strangers
that you don’t know, dressed well and talking to people, it is easy to
assume that they know something or have something you do not. These
people operating on that “high profile” aren’t very likely to come up
and talk to you, so it can be a huge shock if and when they do.
A frequently asked question by our readers concerns
resistance. In
the comment sections of my articles, many readers have pointed out that
when they make a sexual move (in the form of 
Ah,
threesomes! For many men, having sex with two women at once is
the pinnacle of manliness. Ask any man about his sexual fantasies, and
if he's man enough to admit he has some, you will almost certainly hear
"two chicks at once." 