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Are You Giving Her Sex or Trading for It?

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By: Chase Amante

Mar 12, 2014

Men most commonly view their sexual encounters as a transaction – a trade with women for sex. But did you know you could view sex as a gift you give to women, too?

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Real Empiricists Test

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By: Chase Amante

Mar 11, 2014

A reader asks to be convinced, but the response is not what he expects: go try it out and decide for yourself. Real empiricists test.

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Satisficing and Seduction; or, Why You Probably Won't be a Bachelor Forever

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By: Chase Amante

Mar 2, 2014

A reader wants to know if getting good with women means you enable yourself to escape the trap of needing to settle down – or, do you?

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Chase's Guide to Time Management

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By: Chase Amante

Feb 25, 2014

Forget schedules and software programs, the fad diets of time management – how do you *really* manage your day so that you have more time?

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Should I Make Her My Girlfriend?

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By: Alek Rolstad

Feb 20, 2014

How do you know if you’re ready to make a girl your girlfriend or not? Well, it has as much to do with you, yourself, as it does with her.

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Picking Up Girls and the Game of Asymmetric Returns

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By: Chase Amante

Feb 19, 2014

Returns in the world of dating, sex, and relationships are asymmetric – only, the human mind isn’t programmed to deal with this.

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How Your Lifestyle Colors Your Perception of Relationships

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By: Chase Amante

Jan 30, 2014

How do you feel about relationships – trusting, paranoid, or nonchalant? As it turns out, the way you meet women is probably the biggest factor in how you feel about relationships.

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How to Feel Good NOW

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By: Drexel Scott

Jan 23, 2014

The ability to control your emotions and direct how you feel is the difference between your environment dictating your emotions… or you.

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The Art of Learning to Pick Up and Sleep with Girls

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By: Alek Rolstad

Jan 19, 2014

Alek takes a magnifying glass to the process of learning seduction – how hard is it? How long does it take? What are the major hang-ups? And, is it worth it?

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How to Achieve Your Goals for 2014

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By: Drexel Scott

Jan 9, 2014

There’s a much better way to get yourself achieving than simply writing (or worse, speaking once) your goals for the New Year.

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The Wrapping and the Present

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By: Chase Amante

Dec 28, 2013

The wrapping – your and her styles – and the present – your and her substances – are two easily confused, and sometimes quite frustrating, things.

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Can You Develop More Empathy? Science Suggests "Yes"

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By: Chase Amante

Dec 17, 2013

Believe it or not, it is possible to learn how to have more empathy. Empathy’s a mental process that enables you to get into someone else’s shoes – and better understand the world.

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You’re Not That Special (and Neither is She)

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By: Chase Amante

Dec 1, 2013

One of the major cultural factors at play in the West right now is the pervasive feeling of being “the best” – and the dissonance when others don’t treat you like so.

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