Schrödinger's Attraction: Women Both Want You & Don't at the Same Time
Aug 31, 2025
Understand “Schrödinger’s attraction”: a woman can be simultaneously interested and not—a state that collapses only when you make a key move.
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Aug 31, 2025
Understand “Schrödinger’s attraction”: a woman can be simultaneously interested and not—a state that collapses only when you make a key move.
Women need a reason for sex; men just need a place. So goes the saying… but why is this the case? Much of it has to do with the way women experience sexual arousal.
A woman’s level of interest with you isn’t an on-or-off switch. It’s a position on a “spectrum of interest” – and her position on that spectrum is in constant flux.
When she can’t figure you out, she’s intrigued. When you seem like you might be the man she wants, even more intrigued. Once she’s intrigued, she’ll chase.
Women are different from men. They aren’t attracted to the same things men are, and they choose their mates differently than men do.
She quit responding to your texts, but then, months later, there she is, messaging you to meet up. What happened, and why did she reappear?
Women often claim dates and hookups “just happen!” to them. But do they? And if you’re a man, is there a way to tap into things “just happening” yourself?
Women debate the morality of an extramarital affair while married to a man you don’t love. Why do different women view things differently?
Women sort regular guys into stereotyped boxes to know what to do with them. But make yourself sufficiently attractive, and these rules no longer apply to you…
She’s beautiful. She can sleep with anyone she wants to. So, if she’s a beautiful girl, why WOULDN’T she sleep around with every hot guy she can get?
When girls act rude, dismissive, dramatic, or rejecting, it’s usually not because they’re nasty people. Usually it’s because they’re skittish about something.
Q&A with a straight male escort: what kinds of women use escorts? What do they expect in an escort? What has escorting taught you about the opposite sex? And more…
What do women’s real dating histories look like? Do they hook up with tons of different guys… or are their romantic pasts, in fact, rather plain?
There are many different kinds of women to meet. Most guys meet the same 1-2 types of girls again and again without realizing. But are you meeting the best one(s) for you?
