Tactics Tuesdays: Telling Her You'd Better Stop / Are Getting "Too Turned On"
Dec 2, 2025
When she shows interest, AMPLIFY that interest by telling her to stop… because she’s turning you on! Frame her as a naughty minx, & you turn her into one!
Dec 2, 2025
When she shows interest, AMPLIFY that interest by telling her to stop… because she’s turning you on! Frame her as a naughty minx, & you turn her into one!
What end must you aim for in a seduction? Is it attraction? Is it stimulation? Is it to impress her so much she chases? In fact, it’s none of these… not if you want the girl, that is.

Women will resist you and object to what you say. Yet you must be able to escalate things with them anyway. Once you can, success with girls gets simpler.

Here’s a great seduction gambit based on anti-climaxes and creating intrigue. This one is designed specifically to get her isolated with you. Tequila!

Every courtship is a ladder of many steps, some of which are absolutely crucial to get anywhere. Failing to pass these points of no return will spell almost certain doom.

You should never wait for a girl to make a move toward sex. That’s your job. These two move-making strategies will help you get the job done in most situations.

Shy or not, the secret to getting a girl in bed is to move fast. But is the process of escalating to sex different with shy girls? Yes, and here’s how to do it.

What do you do when it’s going well? Invite her to do something. How about when it starts to stall out? Make invites. It goes stale? Make an invite.

When she isn’t ready for the whole thing, sometimes you can get in with just the tip. But you can use this tactic in many more ways than just sex.

Two steps forward, one step back. It’s the magic technique that lets you bypass almost all of her resistance… And it’s not hard to do.

Sometimes you go to escalate things forward with a girl – but she's not having it. What do you do when she's not ready to escalate?

If you want to take her home today, first you must isolate her from her friends. There exist 3 standard ways to isolate a girl… plus some non-standard ways.

Escalating physically and verbally on women can be difficult to do in a controlled way. Here’s how to calibrate your escalation to the girl.

Ben and Jamie from Eat•Sleep•Grow•Repeat interview Chase on approaching, targeting, dicey social situations, attainability, and more.
