Escalation Windows: How Women Make the Mating Dance Move
Jul 2, 2026
When a woman likes a man, she opens an escalation window for him. Whether he takes that window determines whether things proceed or she shuts the window.
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Jul 2, 2026
When a woman likes a man, she opens an escalation window for him. Whether he takes that window determines whether things proceed or she shuts the window.
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