Tactics Tuesdays: Innocuous Openers
Jul 8, 2025
Men opening women in bold, in-her-face, ‘manly’ ways is common today. Pickup lines are common too. You know what’s not? The easy openers: innocuous ones.
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Jul 8, 2025
Men opening women in bold, in-her-face, ‘manly’ ways is common today. Pickup lines are common too. You know what’s not? The easy openers: innocuous ones.
If you struggle with approach anxiety, the cure you may need is its very opposite: an addition to approaching women, wherever they are.
You can use attention grabs to elicit approach invitations from women. Why would you want to do that? So you know which girls to chat up.
Airport game rocks. Yet, to pick up a girl in an airport, you’ll need specific strategies for security lines, transfer desks, and the gate.
Women are frequently friendlier your second time talking to them. Men often don’t think to reengage – but you should.
Some guys seem to be “lucky” – they always find the girl who wants to date them (or sleep with them). Yet this is anything but chance.
The subway is too good a place to meet women for you to pass up. However, it can be tough to pull from – you must follow the steps.
Concerts are energy-filled venues great for meeting women. But there are some tricks to them – like where to position yourself, and what to do.
The bus is a common place to see cute girls you may want to meet. But talking to women on the bus can seem tricky for many reasons.
Something as simple as going for a walk might not seem like a pillar of good game. Yet the benefits it can have for your success with girls are not to be overlooked.
It’s hard motivating yourself to meet women when you feel down and out. Here are some tips to get you moving despite a sour mood.
Your heart may fall a bit when she says she has a boyfriend – but it need not. That’s because this doesn’t always mean what you think it means.
People dislike fear, and try to avoid it. But fear, properly harnessed, is a guide and teacher on the road to success with women… and beyond.
Part of the excitement of backpacking is the romance and sex you enjoy on it. Local girls, fellow tourists, women in transit – all can be down if you play your cards right.
