Sometimes you’ll meet girls who won’t contribute to conversation.
When this happens, you’ll have to step up and do the talking yourself.
One of our forum members by the name of Witcher had a few questions
about deep diving, one of which was this:
“Deep
diving demand[s] from the seducer to ask girls a lot of questions, How
to
not make It look like an interview or audition? This is the impression
I have doing it and It feels a little weird.”
Of course, one of the keys to deep diving is that you not
make it feel like an interview... which means past a certain number of
questions, if she hasn’t begun to participate much yet, you need to
turn
your questions into statements. You can do this with cold reads
(instead of: “What do you do for work?”, make it: “You look like either
an anthropologist or an entrepreneur, I’m not sure which”). And beyond
this, if she doesn’t get more involved, you will need to start to tell
stories and otherwise steer the conversation with your own content.
The better your fundamentals, the faster
you hook girls in...
and the more likely you are to end up in conversations where girls pelt
you with questions and/or open up about themselves from the get-go.
Yet even if your fundamentals are in a class of their own, you will
still encounter women who seem, for lack of a better term for it,
‘conversationally impaired’.
Could be she isn’t interested. Could be she’s not in a social mood.
Could be she’s just a quiet person and not particularly talkative.
But if you find yourself in such a conversation, with a girl who
sticks around and passes your compliance tests (so you know
you’re not wasting your time on a disinterested girl), yet nevertheless
doesn’t contribute, you will need another approach.
You’ll need to be able to run the conversation when the girl’s
contribution is all or mostly absent.
