Social texting, text message negs, and asking her to answer
quicker are a few common texting mistakes you’d do well to avoid.
These days, texting – or the various flavors of instant messaging –
has clearly taken over as the preferred form of communication to get
newly-met girls on dates and into bed. So much so that many seek out
articles, books, and coaches to help them master the art.
Ten years ago, it was perfectly legit to call a girl you just met and set
up a meet over the phone. The phone used to be a great tool, because
you could show her how cool of a guy you are through voice tonality,
which is still a fundamental art for in-person interactions (which is
why setting up a meet should be your primary goal when texting). It
used to be that I’d turn cold numbers warm through good phone calls –
but those days are gone for the most part.
You’d think showcasing good voice tonality over the phone would go a
long way when meeting someone new, but if you call a new girl nowadays,
she most likely won’t even answer, because she’s not comfortable
talking to strangers. The only person who actually calls her on the
phone and gets picked up is probably her mom. In other words, you could
have a very sexy voice, but if she doesn’t
answer the phone, well, I guess you could leave a voicemail and hope
for the best. But she’ll probably still think you’re weird for calling.
“Dude, voicemail? Who does that? Why doesn’t he just text? Weirdo.”
Like it or not, people now prefer
text communication for contacting new people, even when a two-minute
call could accomplish the same thing as several texts over the course
of hours. Whether or not people realize texting is most often
less efficient, it’s always more comfortable, non-confrontational, and
safe. So that’s what we do now.
The problem is that a lot of communication cues are lost in written
text, even with the use of emojis. And it is more important now to
convey your coolness through text than it ever was. Even if you’re just
trying to get a date with a hot girl you met during night game or day
game, the tool required to get to meet her again face to face is called
Many dudes have not connected the dots between having a horrible
text game and having very few dates. Ask any guy who is decently good
with girls, and they’ll tell you there is a clear correlation between
text game and actually getting girls close enough to you for sex to
happen. But what is good text game? We have several
articles that deal with that. In this post, I want to
give you guys some additional pointers on how to avoid bad text game.
Okay, guys. Take notes, and don’t do this stuff.