The Abundance Trap: Why More Hot Women Can Mean Less Sex
Jun 30, 2025
Why scoring hotter women can backfire—leaving you with less sex. Discover the ‘Abundance Trap’ and how to escape it to enjoy more success with women.
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Jun 30, 2025
Why scoring hotter women can backfire—leaving you with less sex. Discover the ‘Abundance Trap’ and how to escape it to enjoy more success with women.
Want to get good with women but think you’re not the right ‘type’ for it? Here are the most common traits I see in the best pickup artists I know. This may surprise you.
Before you can put new beliefs in, first you must push past old bad beliefs that conflict. But what if you don’t even know you have them?
Is pickup just a bunch of snake oil? No, and you should take my word for it. After you’ve approached enough girls, you’ll wonder why you ever doubted.
As long as you don’t give false expectations, you need not suffer from player guilt. In fact, denying her sex when she wants it is NOT the way to spare her feelings.
Once you start sleeping with a girl regularly, your drive to meet new women dips. What causes this, and is there a way to avoid this 'dip'?
Cherish the grind, the journey of achieving your goals. Enjoy the struggle and hope it never ends, because your worst fear should be having everything you desire.
Joshua Spodek is an academic and successful entrepreneur. We brought him in to talk about how anyone anywhere can create extraordinary results in business and pleasure.
“Fake it till you make it” is not a disingenuous strategy. You design who you want to be and adopt traits you want to have, until you become your desired self.
Sometimes we put on facades because our genuine self sucks. Other times because we don’t want to appear ordinary. Can one become both genuine and extraordinary?
The term “outcome independence” has become a popular topic in the seduction community. But the concept is flawed, as it can trip you up when it comes to getting results.
Sexual shame can debilitate you in bed, or make you fear intimacy (or feel bad about it after). However, there are 3 effective methods to overcome it.
If you do what ‘they’ do, you get what ‘they’ get – but it may not be what you want. If you want more than conventional, you have to get unconventional.
Fear is useful but also a killer of dreams if you give it control. A fearless man is one who understands fear and endeavors to overcome it through practice.
