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Why "I Want to Be Liked" Makes You Unattractive to Others

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By: Chase Amante

Jun 21, 2013

You might not realize it, but you’re actually harming your chances with the opposite sex when you want to be liked too much. Here’s how.

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“I am the Prize”: How to REALLY Get This Mindset with Women

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Jun 17, 2013

What do you need to do to get the “I am the prize” mindset going? Here, Chase Amante dives into what this mindset is and how you can get it.

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The Pig and the Mirror

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By: Chase Amante

Jun 16, 2013

When trying to decide if the problem is with you or the problem is with other people, remember to check more than one mirror.

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Outcome Independence; or, Not Missing a Beat

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By: Chase Amante

Jun 3, 2013

Outcome independence can free you to meet women more easily and shrug off rejection without a care – if you learn how to use it right.

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Your Beliefs Aren't Real

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By: Chase Amante

May 23, 2013

Just when you think you've got it all figured out... it turns out your beliefs aren't really 'real' at all.

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Cognitive Dissonance and Upset Commenters

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By: Chase Amante

May 20, 2013

Why do people get upset when they encounter views that clash with their own? We look at cognitive dissonance, and how it works.

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Lower Your Standards (and Date Hotter Girls)

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May 3, 2013

The latest research shows that the men with the highest self-esteem lower their standards with women the most – and there’s a good reason why.

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5 Steps that Let You Visualize Anything into Reality

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By: Chase Amante

Apr 22, 2013

Visualization is a powerful long-term tool for running simulations in your mind. Find out how to unlock its power and start training yourself to live the life of your dreams.

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Events vs. Process: What Spectators Don't See

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By: Chase Amante

Apr 7, 2013

When someone makes it big, is that an event – or another part of the process? Success isn’t luck or talent, you see; it’s simple hard work.

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The Purpose of Life from a Practical Point of View

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By: Chase Amante

Apr 4, 2013

A practical handbook to understanding and selecting purposes and causes in life, with a dip into the philosophical with a look at life itself, and what it all means - or doesn't mean.

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Black and White Thinking: When It's Useful vs. Harmful

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By: Chase Amante

Mar 12, 2013

Black and white thinking is a potent tool for decision making and influencing – but it has a dark side you need to be aware of as well.

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Stop Being So Judgmental: It's All Actor-Observer Bias

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By: Chase Amante

Feb 19, 2013

Actor-observer bias describes the inherent disconnect in how we think about our own actions compared to those of others all around us.

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How to Be More Aggressive with Women, Dating, and Life

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By: Chase Amante

Feb 16, 2013

In the modern West, many men have forgotten their traditions on how to be aggressive and bring the things they want into their lives.

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