No, Women Don't Hate Being Approached—The Internet Lied to You
Jul 3, 2025
All across the web woke journalists & red pill gurus alike claim women hate being approached. But these folks are lying; women LOVE to be approached by MEN!
Jul 3, 2025
All across the web woke journalists & red pill gurus alike claim women hate being approached. But these folks are lying; women LOVE to be approached by MEN!
Do you approach girls, have it go a bit well, then eject without that great a reason? That’s a “half-assed approach” – and it’ll slow your learning curve.
No guy likes to get rejected by girls. So, use these tactics to slice your odds of rejection by making things casual, asking before big moves, plus 4 more.
Has anxiety to make an approach frozen up your attempts to meet girls? There’s a simple solution to getting around it: change up your objectives.
If a girl tells you you’re not her type, then what? Is it a rejection, or is there still hope? Well… it depends on the context – as well as on what you do next.
Which girls to approach? Before you walk up, screen the girl & situation. You can learn a lot in advance… including whether she’s worth going up to or not.
When girls commit faux pas or act rude, you may be tempted to tell them off. This is not what to do… if your plan is to bed them or date them, that is.
Girls you meet in different kinds of nightlife venues have tastes. Some like this type of guy… or that type of approach. The secret? Macro calibration.
Getting into selective nightlife venues is no easy task. Yet if understand the social dynamics of door entry, and getting in becomes more assured.
When you’re new to approaching women, it can be tough to know which girls to meet. Use these 14 basic approaching rules to know when to go in and what to do.
Going out to meet women? The nightlife venue you choose has a big impact on your odds. Meet markets are good for lower level playboys, but at elite levels, selective is where it’s at.
If she implies she’s rejecting you, it isn’t always over. Follow this guide to know when to walk away… versus when to draw out her true objection & overcome it.
The pool of women you date and hook up from is the same pool you’ll select long-term girlfriends and wives from. But pickup pools aren’t always the best spots to find great LTRs…
In Part 7, receive 8 of my best tips for running the best possible (and least exhausting) daily life pickup routine. This video’s free, so even non-Premium viewers can watch.