Mindsets
by Chase Amante |
Sunday, 11 August 2019
Right before you make a move with a girl, doubts kick in, and you chicken out. “Next time,” you tell yourself. But will you do it next time – will there even BE a next time?
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Before you can put new beliefs in, first you must push past old bad beliefs that conflict. But what if you don’t even know you have them?
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Wednesday, 17 July 2019
Is pickup just a bunch of snake oil? No, and you should take my word for it. After you’ve approached enough girls, you’ll wonder why you ever doubted.
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Thursday, 27 June 2019
Once you start sleeping with a girl regularly, your drive to meet new women dips. What causes this, and is there a way to avoid this 'dip'?
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Wednesday, 19 June 2019
Trust has crumbled between the sexes as men and women have cooperated less. What's caused this collapse in trust between male and female?
by Darwin Niwrad |
Tuesday, 11 June 2019
Women can seem hopelessly complicated, but if you check off some basic ideas, you’ll display enough understanding to allow them to bring their walls down for you.
by Cody Lyans |
Monday, 20 May 2019
When approaching a woman, much of our anxiety comes from not understanding her perspective. This mindset tweak will help unburden your ego and smooth things out for you.
by Alek Rolstad |
Friday, 3 May 2019
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Sunday, 28 April 2019
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by Hector Castillo |
Saturday, 27 April 2019
There are women out there who are attracted to you. The way you find them is to approach. I hope this reflection on my 10-year journey will motivate and inspire.
by Cody Lyans |
Monday, 15 April 2019
Throughout life, we have opportunities to gain experiences that free our minds and build our character, leaving us forever changed. This is the moment that freed me.
by Tony Depp |
Wednesday, 27 March 2019
Getting laid is a matter of putting out a sexual vibe, getting horny, and getting naked. Those things are much easier when you’re super comfortable having a penis.
by Tony Depp |
Thursday, 14 March 2019
If you want to get laid, approach lots of girls. Sounds simple, but what if approaching women terrifies you? These tools will help you conquer your fears.
by Hector Castillo |
Sunday, 3 March 2019
Fear is useful but also a killer of dreams if you give it control. A fearless man is one who understands fear and endeavors to overcome it through practice.
by Chase Amante |
Tuesday, 29 January 2019
An easy way to get your feet moving despite fears of rejection: just tell yourself "She'll likely reject me anyway... so let's go see what happens."
by Chase Amante |
Monday, 21 January 2019
Every man's actions when socializing are guided by 1 of 3 core aims. The wrong aim can sabotage him in social situations… but the right aim will give him wings.
by Chase Amante |
Tuesday, 25 December 2018
If you have one of these beliefs about women, it's holding you back... and you probably don't even realize it.
by Alek Rolstad |
Friday, 21 December 2018
If you keep asking yourself why you suck so bad with women while all these other dudes are getting laid, there are probably some things you aren’t taking into account.
by Chase Amante |
Tuesday, 18 December 2018
When a date or an outing doesn't pan out, use a post-mortem to figure out why. Give yourself clear action items for next time – and recover your emotions, too.
by Alek Rolstad |
Friday, 14 December 2018
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Thursday, 15 November 2018
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