Yes, And… Dating: How to Use Improv Comedy Rules to Flirt Better
Jul 14, 2025
Master the art of flirting using improv comedy’s ‘Yes, and…’ rule! Turn awkward moments into attraction and make her laugh effortlessly.
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Jul 14, 2025
Master the art of flirting using improv comedy’s ‘Yes, and…’ rule! Turn awkward moments into attraction and make her laugh effortlessly.
Once you’re good at using teases, it’s time for the next level: expert CALIBRATION of your teases to match the tone and length of what you’re reacting to.
You can use uproarious humor to get whole groups laughing. You can use subtle humor to set seductive frames. But how should you use either with girls?
Inject fun, break rules, and find out a girl’s deep opinions of men (which you can bond with her on… or TEASE!) with old classic ‘Fuck, Marry, Kill’.
The push-pull of Edward C. Tolman is very different from push-pull as seducers understand it. But what makes these two push-pulls so discrete? And can they be combined?
When a girl is laughing a lot but also blocking you from moving forward, what do you do? Simple enough: you tell her she’s blowing it – and WAKE her up!
Turn boring conversation into playful banter and open loops. Just ask her, “Is it true what they say about X girls?” with ‘X’ being something about her.
When girls create unhelpful frames, use a bait-and-switch tension pop (a B&S pop). B&S pops build investment, seize the frame, and tease her all at once.
When women hit you with a double bind, here’s one easy way out of that: agree with what they say, then amplify it to the point of comical absurdity.
Girls in groups may seem intimidating. Yet with the right approach, groups of girls can be fun (and romantically productive!). So, put these gambits to use…
Why do girls flirt in some places but not others? Why will they flirt with some men but not others? It has as much to do with safety as it does attraction.
Want a simple way to hook women in? Bait them with something that sounds juicy or provocative… then subvert their expectations.
Pickup lines, flirtatious comebacks, and witty one-liners: all the stuff of good teasing and flirtation. Use these 50 one-liners as a springboard for your own flirtations.
If you like to tease girls, you’ll like this one: teasing her by implying you want to get rid of her or get her away. Not only can this be a fun, playful tease – it is also a chase frame.
