Gym Pickup: Dos, Don'ts, and How to Meet Girls at a Gym
In the comment
section of the article on how to have a sexy walk, Matt
remarked:
“Excellent article, my brother! Would love to see a post about direct/indirect pick ups specifically at the gym. Seems like a great place for day game, girls at the gym are obviously some of the hottest you'll see out in the day cause they're fit and healthy... but it's a challenging proposition. Many are listening to iPods, plugged into their music and workout. Whenever I talk to a girl at the gym I feel like I'm "disrupting" her workout.
Matt”
One of the very first places I picked up from when I was brand new to cold approach was the gym. In that case, it was a girl who worked at the gym who I sort of knew from class (I was in university at the time), but hadn't spoken to before, and I took the gym as my opportunity to do so - and then to have her drive me to get some food, and set up a proper date.
You might think gym pickup is inordinately hard simply because there are so many big muscular guys there, or because the women look so good (and there are so few of them), or because it's so brightly lit and obvious, or because since everyone else is focused on putting weights in the air and treadmill tread behind them, and that you're really going to stick out when you approach.
But in fact, there are certain advantages to meeting girls in the gym for a socially savvy man, not the least of which is the fact that most of those guys who are working out so hard there are doing so because they have no idea how to get women.
So there's not actually as much competition as you think. And in
certain ways, even the environment itself can work to your benefit.
In this post, we'll take a close look at the dos and don'ts of gym pickup, along with the how-tos for opening and game at the gym.
I'm
thrilled to announce that the new forum is up and ready, and we're
going open it up to the first 35 new members. A little later in this
post, I'll tell you what we're looking for in the initial group of
people we let through the doors, and how you can be among them.
Most
of the time, you walk about the world meeting
ordinary people
living ordinary lives who leave little of an impression on you. That's
life.
One
question that confuses the hell out of a lot of guys
(and also
confused the hell out of 
When you start
tackling women and dating as a skill set,
once you
get past the initial hump of overcoming the 
Sometime
back ago, when I was still new to learning about seduction,
I shared with a friend the tale of a girl I'd gone out with and the
sexual dialogue I'd tried using to get her mind going the right way...
and how disappointed I was it hadn't seemed to have had the desired
effect.
We're preparing to launch a new forum here for everyone interested in talking shop, sharing techniques and strategies, keeping field reports to track their interactions and get feedback from others on how they're doing and how they can improve, and a whole lot more.
When
I was 12 years old, I first started experimenting with my walk.
I'd begun running social experiments a little earlier that year, and I
figured I could tweak things about myself to give people the kind of
impression I wanted to give them.