Showing Interest Without Chasing: Use High Points!
May 1, 2025
Men often make chase by showing interest women have not ‘earned’. If you do not want to chase, tie your interest-showing to her giving HIGH POINTS!
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May 1, 2025
Men often make chase by showing interest women have not ‘earned’. If you do not want to chase, tie your interest-showing to her giving HIGH POINTS!
Lots of guys get into pick up artistry imagining they’ll sleep with tons of women. Most drop out before that point. How long does the average guy stay in?
Get a grounded perspective on the realities of nightlife seduction. Do looks matter? Can you get any girl? Is it resistance or rejection? And more…
Preselection need not be an accidental boon. You can cultivate it deliberately with women, too… using these two angles to get girls VISIBLY chasing YOU.
Dedicated student of the game Kvothe shares his journey to seduction success as our Skilled Seducer of the Month for May 2024.
When you are “in the field” with women, it pays to be able to adapt your girl-getting strategies on the fly. Savvy strategic calibration helps you do this.
If you go out but you’re not able to pick up girls, why? It’s probably not what you think (looks, money, status, etc.). Instead, it is something ELSE.
Everybody wants to learn to do better. Yet some of the ways we can think about learning actually impede our progress – even while we THINK they HELP!
Not sure if a girl you’re talking to is into you? Want to find out a quick, fun, and easy way? Use a touch test! It’s like a compliance test – with touch!
Reward girls to encourage helpful behavior you like. Punish them to discourage unhelpful behavior you dislike. Do both to make your love life much easier.
As you analyze your outings once you are out of the field, don’t forget these additional variables: the social frame of the venue, your mood, and more.
After a night (or day) out in the field, you need to review your outing to see what worked – and didn’t. Focus on these key variables for the biggest improvements.
When you go out to pick up girls, sometimes you succeed, and sometimes you fail. How do you extract the lessons from that? One way is via post-field diagnostics.
How hard is it to cold approach girls and get success with them – REALLY? Is it impossible… very difficult… or actually easier than many believe?
