How to Never Be the "Dancing Monkey" When Joking with Girls

We’re two days away from the rerelease of Lush Teases™. I hope you’re jazzed (I am!).
In the meantime, let’s talk about balancing your humor properly to get maximum value from it.
We’re two days away from the rerelease of Lush Teases™. I hope you’re jazzed (I am!).
In the meantime, let’s talk about balancing your humor properly to get maximum value from it.
Women are attracted to tattoos. Well, some women. Many women. At least, slutty women. (Trump voice): “And that’s okay. We like that.”
We’re days away from the rerelease of my Lush Teases™ Method, the only broken-down model ever created that teaches men exactly how to CONSTRUCT humor that ends with girls in their beds.
When girls are laughing, they let you get away with murder (well, maybe not murder, but they sure let you touch them all over and lead them all about).
Hey guys. Welcome back.
Today, I’ll continue last week’s discussion on end-game physical escalation for beginners. There may still be valuable insights for intermediates, and let’s face it, even advanced guys can benefit from a refresher.
The goal of this post remains the same as last week’s: to shift the focus away from escalating and breaking through resistance and instead, discuss how to avoid it in the first place. Prevention is the most effective strategy for tackling this. It’s also much less frustrating. After all, who enjoys facing resistance after spending time with a girl you desire?
It’s also a more pleasant strategy because dealing with resistance directly often kills the vibe, and there is plenty of room for mistakes. When you address resistance head-on, it typically sets an unwanted frame of you chasing her—sometimes even desperately—since she is saying no, and you are trying to persuade her to say yes.
Of course, there are ways around this, but they can be tricky. I will share the basics in next week’s post, do not worry. Dealing with resistance head-on will almost always have negative consequences on your frame.
Last week, we discussed whether one should escalate immediately or wait. Framed differently, what are the implications of rushing things, or waiting before escalating “to play is safe”? Both methods can backfire. If you escalate too early, your girl may not be in the right mood or feel comfortable enough, “not ready” yet, thus increasing your chance of facing resistance.
If you wait too long, you may miss an escalation window. She may be ready now, but your window closes. There may be several reasons: her mood changes (see Chase’s fantastic post on cresting, Emotional Cresting: What It Is and How to Use It), or she starts noticing your indecisiveness and perceives you as a “friend” and not a potential sexual partner.
The bottom line: If you try to escalate outside of a window when it closes, you risk facing resistance.
I cannot stress how important this is. This may seem a bit far-fetched to those just starting (and even those who have been around a while), but these effects are powerful. It takes experience to grasp concepts that truly have an impact. That was the case in my journey.
I’ve got a new (or maybe not brand new, if you were here for the first launch of Lush Teases™ last November) video for you on the usefulness of teasing women.
This post by ZacAdam originally appeared on our forum here.
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