There are three levels of calibration in seduction, and they all matter: the micro, meso, and macro levels. You must calibrate each level for a truly optimal seductive strategy.Hey guys.
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Sometimes girls brag. But not always for the same reason. How can you tell WHY she’s bragging… and what the appropriate response to that is?Most of the time you probably think of bragging as being a male behavior.
Most of the time you’d be right.
Sometimes, though, it isn’t. Sometimes girls brag, too.
There are different reasons why women will do it, and while we’ll discuss those, we aren’t overly concerned with them here today.
Instead, what we’re concerned with today is something different:
What to do when a girl brags to you.
More and more blockbusters feature “deconstruction” of established strong characters. This isn’t a good thing – it is harmful for viewers uncritically absorbing this nonsense.I’ve recently found myself watching fewer and fewer recent movies.
We discussed it on the forum a while back. I mentioned in that thread that:
The way I think of it is most modern movies are being made for someone other than me.
I don't know exactly whom their target audience is, but it's definitely not a guy like me.
Many modern film themes are increasingly puerile. Their cultural revolutionary elements are stifling, jammed into every other scene and made as blatant and jarring as possible, seemingly deliberately aimed at breaking immersion.
On top of that, they all just feel hollow.
When I watch most modern movies, I come out of it feeling like I’ve spent two hours in a brainwashing chamber, and the only way to get un-brainwashed is to watch an old movie. Then a few days later I watch an old movie and it’s a breath of fresh air… the world makes sense again, all is as it should be, and everything returns to normal.
It isn’t every single modern movie that has this “brainwashed” effect I’ve found – it’s just a lot of them.
What, then, is the difference, between modern “brainwash” movies and non-brainwash modern movies plus older cinema?
Recently I began to really dig into the thematic differences between modern vs. older cinema, and it’s become increasingly clear what modern films are doing that, in my view, is just straight up poisonous to the healthy male’s psychology.
I’ve talked to you before about how the media influences thoughts and feelings. I’ve advised you to turn off the screens and limit the amount of time you spend on them.
Today I want to show you just what is going on beneath the surface in some of these “harmless” popcorn movies you are absorbing into your skull.
A man may be focused on what he wants… or he may be focused on what others want. Too extreme a focus on either of these leads to dysfunction in his social life.In any kind of social situation, there are two considerations you may have:
“What do I want?”
“What do you want?”
Many of the problems people have dealing with other people come from leaning too heavily onto one or the other of these.
When someone is too nice, or too big a pushover, or too unassertive, it is generally because he is overly focused on the question of “What do you want?”
When on the other hand someone is too rude, or too pushy, or too imposing, it is generally because he is overly focused on the question of “What do I want?”
Getting this balance right is a major milestone in better social results.
Day game strategies can work at night… in some situations. Yet there are strategies unique to night game, and if you’ll do night game, you’ll want to take full advantage.Night game is not day game done at night. Last week I shared why this is by focusing on the overall dynamics of vibe and social codes. Today, I want to dig deeper and discuss how night game and day game differ and, more importantly, how you can learn these differences to avoid making unnecessary mistakes in night game so you get the most out of night game.
This post is for day gamers trying to convert to night game or want to give night game a shot (and you should because it is fun and will make you a better day gamer!). Seasoned night gamers may benefit from this post, too.
I will explain how the tactics for day and night game differ strategically.
When you want to invite a woman home, but the situation is dicey, rather than risk big and go direct, use the lower risk alternative: invite her home indirectly.There comes a time in every seduction where you must complete the seduction.
You have to be able to get together with a girl, somewhere private, where the two of you can get intimate.
If you can’t do this, all your efforts are for naught: she won’t end up with you. Sooner or later, she’ll meet someone else who can get her alone, and she will end up with him.
Thus, in many ways, the pull is one of the most crucial parts of a seduction.
It’s not without risk, either. If you try to pull a girl who isn’t ready, she’ll say “no”, and then you need to decide whether to persist (and risk running into a wall of negative compliance) or back off (and risk going backward in the seduction and losing all your momentum with her).
Sometimes you’ll be in situations where a girl has various things going on, and asking her too directly looks tone deaf, but not asking her risks her getting pulled away by the other things going on, and you losing the girl.
How do you handle such fraught scenarios, and pull off pulls despite the risks?
With indirect pulls – an under-the-radar way of both checking a girl’s willingness to go somewhere private with you and get her thinking the pull was in part or in whole her idea.
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Planning a date’s logistics out is one of the biggest boons you can give your dating. Map the initial spot, the inter-date route, and 3 more date facets for a big romantic boost.What’s the difference between a date with preplanned logistics versus one where you simply pick a place and go?
The difference is often HUGE… with a bevy of key benefits for the preplanned dater.
In light of our 50% off “Summer of Lovelies” One Date sale, and the two limited edition Date Flows I’ve made available with a One Date purchase during this sale (you can also claim them here if you already own One Date), I’m putting out a few different pieces on dates and date planning.
Some of the most prolific daters have established date templates they use over and over again with the women they take out, because those templates simply work:
They know where to meet a girl
They know where to take her
They know where to go with her after the first place
They have a backup venue to take her if she needs more time
They may have various locations they can use to “seal the deal”
You don’t have to be in your home city or town to take advantage of logistical preplanning, either. Preplanning your date logistics is something you can do anywhere.
It’s something you ought to do, everywhere, too… because it just offers so many benefits it’d be silly not to.
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Knowing how to pick up girls by day doesn’t always translate to picking them up well at night – and vice versa. In this series we examine the differences. Today: setting, energy, & vibe.Night game is not day game at night time. Many men seem to struggle with night game lately, especially since night game has gone a bit out of fashion. I hear about these issues when I read night game reports or talk to guys on the forums, in the skilledseducer.com chat, and even with my students.
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I. Night Game Is Not Night Time Day Game
We’ve seen an increase in popularity of day game, with more and more men focusing on this form. Day gamers often assume that their day game knowledge will apply in night game. Obviously, some theories and techniques are relevant in both night and day game, and of course, being a good day gamer will help you in night game and vice versa. But there are major differences, and you need to be aware of them to succeed in day and night game.
And that’s what we will cover today: the major differences between night and day game, and more importantly, how night game is NOT day game at night time.
This is part one of a two-part series. Part one focuses on the major differences with calibrating to the vibe, environment, and setting. Next week’s article will focus on strategic choices that differ between night and day game.
