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10 Dumb Myths About Women Newbie Seducers Often Believe
Men believe a lot of weird/baseless things about women that aren't broadly true. Shed these female myths aside, and be free.If you're a seduction newbie (i.e., you're new to meeting and getting together with girls), I can guarantee you you have some objectively very silly beliefs about women that don't hold water at all.
It's not your fault you have these beliefs, nor are you dumb yourself just for having them. When the brain lacks real world experience in a thing, it picks up 'experience' by observing other things around it.
And our real-world media environment is just all kinds of stupid with the spin it presents on things.
The beliefs men absorb from the media they watch tend to be almost exclusively wrong. There is very little media out there that actively depicts male-female relations.
So you get this situation where men have limited and also shallow real-world experience with women, while meantime getting bombarded with garbage fiction messages from media, and you can't blame them for forming a bunch of inaccurate beliefs about female nature.
In this article, I'll do my part to expose those myths for what they are: myths.
That way you, as a guy going out there to chat up girls, can set these weird and harmful beliefs aside, and start meeting women.
(the image at the top of this article is not to suggest women don't sing siren songs, by the way. Some women certainly do. It's just a cool image of sirens, which are obviously mythical female figures, so it fits the spirit of the article)
Tactics Tuesdays: Reframing with Paradiastole
Paradiastole is a technique for reframing criticism into trophies. That vice of yours? Hey, look on the bright side! At least it means you (something good). That’s paradiastole."You shouldn't say something like that to a woman!" a girl recently told me, half-tickled, half-irate. "It shows you have low EQ!"
"Well, least I'm honest," I said. "Just think how bad it'd be if I was low EQ and I wasn't honest!"
I use this kind of reframe a lot. There's a name for it: it's called 'paradiastole'.
(my EQ's pretty good, by the way)
Paradiastole is a way to reframe a criticism into something positive, in a playful and humorous way. It deflects the other person's judgment, often with a bit of moderate self-deprecation.
If you don't do this, or you don't do it enough, it's a handy little tactic you can add to your arsenal.
Seduction Lessons from Real-Time Strategy Games, Pt 2.
It’s easy to get a big head because you beat an RTS noob or picked up a DTF girl. Yet a truly good seducer (like a good RTS player) relies on strategy, counters, and skillful pacing.Hey guys. Welcome back!
Last week my post described how playing RTS games inspired me and taught me lessons over time. Today I’m going to take you through the second and final part of this series.
This series might seem odd to some readers. Isn’t the idea of writing about Real-Time Strategy video games on Girls Chase borderline geeky? Sure.
However, we are talking about strategy games, and to me, pickup and seduction is a strategy game of sorts. As I mentioned last week, it also comes down to execution (the distinction between micro and macro from the gaming world).
Today I’ll continue to discuss what I’ve learned from playing RTS games and how they apply to seduction. Due to the pandemic, I’ve started playing again (what else is there to do?), and the more I play, the more I see how my overall mindset has been influenced by my time playing online.
Last week I broke down the overall ideas behind RTS games and how they apply to seduction, and today I will get deeper into the subject and show how strategic thinking from RTS can help you become a better seducer.
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The new Chase Amante Girls Chase courses on charisma, how to touch girls, and building a bachelor lifestyle are almost here. Sign up now to know when they come out.As you may (or may not) be aware, we've got some new courses due out in just a few weeks.
I've got three of them coming out, in fact:
