Want to know how to pick up a girl in an elevator? You’ve got to be fast… and you’ve got to be GOOD. That ride doesn’t last long. Make it count!Do we really need an article on how to pick up girls in elevators?
Oh, you’d be surprised!
You know how to project into the future with a girl you’re seducing. You know how to pull her into a role-play. But what happens when you do BOTH?Here’s an enjoyable-yet-deadly combo seduction tactic that combines two old, great techniques: future projection and role-playing.
Done right, you can use it to lower a woman’s inhibitions with you, making her feel allowed to do things she might otherwise not yet feel allowed to do. From there, you just tell her what to do in the role-play and let her imagine it – or do it.
This tactic can be very effective in mid-game and late game for overcoming resistance or moving a girl into a more sexual state.
Once you see how simple it works, yet how powerful it is, you’re going to want to try it out.
Want to make it even simpler to isolate a girl you’ve been chatting up? Here’s all you have to do: qualify her first, THEN isolate her.Hey guys. Welcome back to my series on isolation.
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You already know that isolation is crucial when meeting girls in groups, typically in night game settings. Isolation makes the interaction and seduction easier. It generates more intimacy, facilitates rapport, builds connection, and helps to escalate the vibe, reducing resistance from your girl. On top of this, it also reduces being cockblocked. Isolation is essential.
In my first post, we discussed the basics of isolation and its benefits, isolation factors, and using “isolation requests.” We also shared tips to increase your odds of succeeding, such as using seeding, plausible deniability, and reducing the pressure by letting her friends know where you are isolating your girl.
In my last post, the second post on isolation in this series, we went through social dynamics and how that plays into isolation: what makes it more difficult and easier, how to calibrate, and, more importantly, how to deal with challenging isolation situations.
Finally, we covered how important it is to win over the alpha girl when attempting to isolate. The alpha girl usually gets the final say on whether you get to isolate your girl (unless your target is the alpha girl). We suggested that it is wise to ask the alpha, in addition to your girl, whether you can isolate. We also discussed why doing this is often your best call, so if you are curious why, check my previous article.
Today, I want to share another technique that will increase your odds of isolating successfully: qualification. In addition to facilitating isolation, this technique provides many other benefits. I’ve mentioned these in my past posts on qualification, detailing how to qualify and why you should qualify. If you do not know how to qualify, consider this required reading for this post.
I will give a brief recap here, but that may not be enough if you are unfamiliar with the subject. You must familiarize yourself with this because it is a crucial and fundamental seduction technique.
The enneagram is a 9-part personality system. Its interpersonal benefits are huge; and it endlessly fascinates girls, with many uses in romance.Personality typing is always loads of fun.
Girls like astrology, palmistry, cold reads, and other assorted personality tricks because girls tend to love psychology. A good read on a girl’s personality also builds feelings of attitude-similarity with her, which is crucial to getting the trust to flow in any budding romance.
The old seduction community called these sorts of personality devies “chick crack”, because girls eat it all up so readily.
The enneagram is exactly this – another form of personality type “chick crack”… and one that lets you take things down some seductively useful roads.
Before you make a move on a girl, tease her. You’ll create anticipation, and make her desire it more… and can even make her red-hot for romantic progress.We’ve discussed the power of anticipation on Girls Chase before.
When you can get a girl to anticipate something that is to come with you – assuming she will want/enjoy that something – it builds up her desire for it even more.
Build enough anticipation, and you can give her that giddy enthusiasm for what’s to come that she last experienced as a kid before Christmas.
It might sound like a tall order, not just MAKING moves on women, but making them anticipate those moves (even positively slaver for you to make them) – but as you will see, building anticipation for moves actually makes making moves on girls easier for you, too.
Have you gotten stuck in the rut of treating dating like a roll of the dice? 🎲
Are you relying too much on “shooting your shot” with girls 🎯, hoping it will just work out… only to find yourself frustrated when once again the chips don’t fall your way?
Do you find yourself retreating onto dating apps, swiping over and over on girls’ profiles 📱, being disappointed with the number and quality of the matches you get?
Then it might be time to get serious about dating – and treat it not like a gamble, but like a skill.
Despite years in a happy, satisfying relationship, women sometimes start turning resentful and pulling away. What causes this – and can it be reversed?Contents
1. An LTR Is a Girlfriend Lease
2. Understanding Lease Periods
3. How to Get It Back How It Was
4. 3 Dubious “Get It Back” Strategies
Over on the forum, we have a member with a girlfriend of 6.5 years whose attraction is fading, and who’s begun to decline sex. She is also showing resentment toward him. She’s 34; he’s 40. He’s wondering how to get things back like they were before with her.
I’ve seen this scenario plenty over the years – and been through it myself. There’s a very simple reason girlfriends go sour after years of otherwise happy dating. Your great-grandfather would’ve understood it instantly the first time it happened to him, but times have changed and men don’t learn this stuff from elders anymore.
So let’s have a quick look at what a long-term romantic relationship is, and why women pull away and break up what were, until a point, satisfactory relationships.
When you want to get a girl alone with you but she’s with friends, use it to your advantage. With her friend’s approval, isolating a girl gets even easier…Hey guys. Welcome back.
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Last time we discussed isolation basics: the art of getting her alone with you and away from her group of friends.
We covered why isolation is essential and went over basic techniques.
So why is it essential?
You create more intimacy; it’s only you and her. You have a more connecting vibe.
Fewer distractions as it is all about you and her. You can focus on her alone.
You have less resistance when escalating with fewer people to see and judge her, helping her feel more at ease about letting go and escalating the vibe with you.
Usually, you both move to a quieter area, facilitating verbal communication.
Moving her around grants you bonus rapport points, as experiencing different spaces with someone makes them feel like they know you.
We discussed different settings where isolation occurs, ranging from natural isolation (when it happens accidentally) to actively isolating your girl with isolation requests (asking her to go somewhere with you). The ley for successfully isolating is how your girl feels about you (unless it is an accidental isolation).
Consider these factors before trying to isolate:
How compliant she is toward you. (How attracted is she?)
How comfortable she is around you.
How much her friends like you, and how secure they are in letting you be around her.
We also covered techniques to increase your odds of successfully isolating, such as seeding, thread slicing, open loops, and plausible deniability.
Today we will dive deeper into actively isolating her with requests. We will focus on group dynamics and how that plays into isolation by making or breaking your isolation attempt. You will learn how to use social dynamics to increase your chances of successfully isolating even more.
The main goal is to understand how social dynamics affect isolation requests and how playing the social dynamics correctly will up your success rate.
And as you will see, it plays a huge role.
If you’ve been following along at GirlsChase.TV, you might recall we skipped Episode 17 of my Fantastic Fundamentals series, on attractive vocal intonation. The episode was completed, but for whatever reason (new website woes) would not upload. So we moved on, went ahead to Episode 18 on vocal distinctiveness, and made our way into the mid-twenties.
But now, Episode 17 is up (and it’s not a Premium video; it is FREE to view for all visitors).
Alongside Episode 17, we also have two (2) new Hector Castillo GirlsChase.TV exclusives – with a promise of more to come.
You’ve met a girl, chatted her up, but now she and her friends want to head somewhere else. Should you go with her, or stay where you are?Sometimes you will be out meeting girls, and a girl declares she’s leaving with her friends, but invites you to come along. Should you go with her?
I’ve taken girls up on these offers plenty of times. I’ve declined these offers from girls plenty more times. And the simplest answer to this question is, “It depends.”
What it depends on, and whether to go with her and those friends of hers or to decline, is the subject of today’s post.
