Relationship Jealousy: Here's How to Beat It
As we continue on with our relationship series, there
are a couple
of ground rules you might set for your relationship if you want to
ASSURE smooth sailing, avoid relationship
jealousy, and generally have a happy and productive romance. The
best way to lay these rules is, as usually, not by explicitly stating
them… you don’t want to give her a list.
“These are the rules, woman.”
Not so smooth…
Instead, use the power of frame control to convey what you value and expect from a partner. For example, you can bring it up in conversation, or you can inoculate against an undesirable behavior by telling her about another girl who behaved that way… and how that did nothing to further her relationship with you.
As I said, I believe the most important rule in any functioning relationship is that both partners be always honest with each other. At the same time, however, I recommend that you trust each other implicitly until there is a reason not to. It won’t improve your relationship if you’re constantly suspicious of her… and it won’t help your relationship jealousy any. Trust is one of the four pillars of a great relationship (more about that later on in our series).
And knowing how to maintain that level of trust – and avoid relationship jealousy – is what this article is about.
We’ve been talking a lot about love lately, including in
the posts
on 
We’re
continuing the theme of relationships on here this
week,
kicking it off with a post on bonding, and then onto a topic every guy
wonders about sooner or later in his relationship: 
We've
been talking a lot about relationships on here recently - but
so far, it's been more on how to have healthier relationships in your
own right. But how should you go about selecting the girl you want to
have a relationship with in the 
We’ve
used frames a lot for the sake of getting sexually intimate
with women quickly… now let’s look at the power of frames in the
context of exclusive relationships a bit more.
Many people believe that it doesn’t
matter much what you say to a
girl when you chat her up… that 93% of all communication is nonverbal
anyway, and that the words are just filler. Thus, any 
In the previous article, we answered the question "
It has often been said that both sexual attraction and romantic love are “value based”… but is that really true and what exactly does that even mean? What do girls look for in a man?