Have you read Gene Simmon’s auto-biography “Sex, Money, Kiss”?
If not… I highly recommend it. Gene Simmons has slept with over 3000 women… and whether that is your goal or not, you can probably learn a thing or two from somebody who has that much experience with dating.
One of the most striking comments in his book is that he only became a musician for one reason: He realized that rock stars get a lot of female attention… and he wanted that too.
I’d say if that was his goal, he did pretty well!
According to Simmons, any musician who claims he didn’t get into music for the girls is either lying or gay!
Now, as the late Sigmund Freud would say…
According to Freud, many of our behaviors are motivated by our drive to replicate… whether we’re consciously aware of it or not.
Or in the words of Dex from the movie “The Tao of Steve”:
“Look, men try and chase success for one reason - to impress women. That's the only reason why they write books, they build companies, they compete in sports and all that. And the problem is in life, if you could figure out how you could get laid without achieving anything, you could lose your motivation altogether.”